The problem is twofold. One, she doesn't know I post here & wouldn't appreciate the stories I relate. Two, if she found out I'd posted her pics here w/o her permission (which I'd never get) she'd likely divorce me. I'd love to show her off, but...
She'd die if she knew some of the things I've posted. She is highly embarrassed about her body. I do this very anonymously, so it won't actually reflect on her, but at the same time allows me to be proud of her. The other problem is she suffers from a low self view as far as her body goes. She is not a "skinny chick," and grew up w/ her parents telling her she was fat, which was a bunch of bullshi**. She was awesome looking growing up. We've known each other since grade school. I watched her grow up. She wasn't a skinny kid, but she wasn't a fat slob either.
We've made a lot of progress over the years, but she still doesn't have a great self image. She shows far more cleavage now than she did when we got married (which was none). She is aware than men stare at her boobs & even hit on her, which has always happened, she just didn't know it. I am close to getting her to go out in public braless--something she said she'd never do. I've even got her to sunbath nude, under the right circumstances w/ a ton of privacy.
She's beginning to realize she is a lot more sexy than she'd ever thought. Her sister is almost built identical, but is smaller in all areas including her boobs (she's probably JUST an F cup), but portrays an entirely different image. She didn't realize how similar she & her sister were. I found this out b/c I was working on my sis-in-laws computer one evening & she'd just come home from the gym. I needed to ask her a question through the bathroom door after she'd got out of the shower. Neither she or I realized her cat had managed to get the bathroom door open wide & I got a full frontal view of her as I was coming up the stairs & she was coming out of the shower. The rest of the house was dark & I immediately backtracked, so she didn't know I'd seen her. Little did I know I'd find that she was simply a smaller version of my wife. One day, quite awhile later, my wife was lamenting about her body & how much better her sister's was. It was then that I informed her of what I'd seen. She was floored. Since then, her self image has improved.
Maybe one of these days she'll change her mind, but I doubt it. I'd love to post them as much as you'd like me to, but I am not stupid either. I know what I can & can't do. If she found out about the stories I'd be on her sh** list for awhile, but she'd get over it. Pics, on the other hand, is a different thing entirely.
I quit posting here previously b/c virtually every time I did, someone would not only ask me to post her pics, but would begin almost harrassing me about it. This was before it was well moderated. It was easier to not post anything than reply to the same request over & over & over.
FWIW, to all you out there who wish you had a big breasted woman... here's what I did in my dating years. I've dated a 38DDD at the age of 16--she was 15, a 34F when I was 18, a 34D when I was 21 and now I'm my wife is a 38KK. I did date a few smaller boobed women, but usually not very long.
1. Don't be satisfied w/ only dating someone who'll get on the cover of a swimsuit magazine. So many guys want a girlfriend who is a "hood ornament". She makes you look better. If she's that good looking, she probably has an ego to go with the looks.
2. Don't be afraid to date what many guys call "fat chicks.' So called "fat chicks" are usually far better in bed than most skinny chicks. They are horny as hell, b/c no one will ever "do" them. Skinny chicks are so used to getting it any time they'd like, they just lay there in bed & let YOU do the work. They don't "need" to please you. You are their "boy toy", a living breathing dildo.
3. Many of the so called "fat chicks" really aren't fat. They just aren't a super model "skeleton." I've seen many so called "fat chick" get into a swimsuit & look a lot better than most of the so called "lookers."
4. "Fat chicks" are far nicer to **82** with than a skinny chick. They simply "feel" better. Remember, the best looking clothes are the most uncomfortable. The most comfortable clothes don't look so great. Women are the same way.
5. "Fat chicks" ...
- don't complain about being cold
- don't complain about being hot
- don't complain about as much, period.
- don't complain about eating too much or dieting
- will help you w/ your car & the yard
- like beer
- will keep you warm at night
- don't tell you they can't find a thing to wear & hence, won't go out.
6. And most importantly, you'll find LOTS of fat chicks have big boobs. Few skinny chicks have big boobs.
I think I've said plenty...
[ July 19, 2001: Message edited by: CyberPlainsDrifter ]