This is my first post in like almost 3 years, my ex didn't like me going to this site, eh, she was a 36F so I guess the trade off was worth it. Anywho, I used to obsess over finding someone with VBH, if just to learn about it. One day I stumbled upon a site about breasts that was non-porn related. On this site there is a very nice, lovely girl we will call SarahM to protect her and the site. On this site, I found a post about one of her growth spurts. At first I was wildly turned on, and then I began to realize that VBH is a disease. This poor girl had itchy red breasts that were getting heavier by the day and she could feel it. At one point in the post she says she woke up, sat at the computer and felt something brush the to of her leg, and realized it was her breasts. None of her bras fit after the growth spurt and she felt like a freak. She has talked about unwanted attention from men, being followed in the mall, and constantly being stared at because of her huge breasts. She is a very nice girl, and we have talked on line on several occasions. She made me realize that VBH is a real disease and not something to be chased after. Now if you asked me, I would still say that I want to meet her in person just to see her breasts and to try to talk her out of a reduction, but I know that she would be unhappy lugging 40lb. of breasts around the reast of her life. Any way the point is that VBH is a real disease, and it's almost a social disease because it can really hurt the girl. People will gawk, stare or obsess.