Damn Nimrod, you are a really sweet guy. And Kithara is a wonderful lady. You deserve each other.
As to doctors talking about Kithara's breast weight, tell them to knock it off.
I'm a bachelor, but my mother lives with me, as I am the only member of the family in a situation that allows this.
She has fibromyalgia too, so my sympathies to Kithara on that one. I wasn't aware she had that as well as Lupus, or is it part of Lupus' complex of effects?
Here's wishing you both another great 20 years, and that Kithara's health continues to improve.