She'll figure out what gets your soldier to salute with time, just as you will discover what gets her motor revving...
Then the REAL fun will begin, because you will both know about the other, and won't be nervous.
And yes, she'll be able to get you off in no time. Perfect for those private elevator moments, or semi-secluded parking lots...It will depend on how much time you have. It's much more fun to "make out" with it, but the biggest turn on for my hubby is when I pretty much attack him. He says that the way I do it is almost a bigger turn on than what I'm doing, and he almost gets off more on my attitude. The gourmet sex is much more fulfilling, but it also takes much longer.