well i NEVER post but have to say, it's cool of you to apologize but this collaborative (sp) thing can happen. your site will eventually rock.
it's hard to get things started up sometime. things seem more straight forward at first when it's still an idea. the site, although unfinished, looks slick as shit!
also, you've been very good responding to everyone and quoting and stuff aqnd responding and stuff...... more than most have.
keep at it.
and give that web designer of yours (yeah you!!!) a kick in the a$$ for not pulling lots of all nighters and making this shit happen!!!! (ha)
the whole thing might seem stale to you right now but we're patient ;-0