Not trying to start anything, it's just a thought of mine that I've had for awhile... it just seems that girls with implants are much more acceptable in society than girls without. Like no body minds if you went and bought them as long as you insist they're real and they look great but others are in total disgust if you were born that way and that's just how you naturally are - I'll never understand it.
I am a long time lurker here, and make it a point not to delurk very often. I think I have only done so once before. However, I felt compelled to do so now and comment on Miss Fiore’s last post.
Wendy, in all sincerity, you are simply the single greatest example of Perfection the Universe has decided to create in it’s very long existence. Your beauty transcends time itself. Looking at images of you, is a kin to a religious experience, as the convergence of such beauty, form, and personality could only have been through the grace of a supreme being.
For you to have any kind of plastic surgery would be futile, and a waste, as there is no man who could possibly improve upon perfection personified.
Pay no attention to the ramblings of people you encounter in our society. Most people are self conscious. Women particularly so. People always tend to bring down the self respect of others, so that they themselves can step on them to elevate their own. Women are far more accepting of a woman that has large implants, then a woman who has large natural breasts, for a very simple reason. They see the implanted women as being equal to themselves.
“She is no better then me. I could be just like that if I decided to spend that kind of money.”
This same statement can not be said about a Woman who has large natural breasts, and they know it. It brings to the foreground for them, in a very vivid way, the physical attribute that many women are most self conscious about.
Because they can not accept themselves as they are.
Because they can not see how believing oneself to be beautiful makes them beautiful to others, they bristle against the very thing they are self conscious about.
They try to convince themselves that such a physical trait is awful, disgusting, that they would never want to be that way them selves. Even though the desire to be that way is what is causing the behavior in the first place.
Real confident people would never shun you for being you. Smaller breasted confident women might show concern over your possible physical discomfort from such endowments, but once they discovered you were happy, they would be so for you as well.
You appear to be such a person Wendy. You seem to be a confident person who accepts yourself for who you are, and as such, would accept others for who they are as well. This is the genesis of the beauty you radiate. Your beauty of spirit.
If you gave in to the doubts that weaker souls try to force upon you, and let them force you into trying to medically fix a problem that doesn’t exist, not only would the beauty of your form be tarnished, but most importantly, the beauty of your spirit as well.
Please don’t allow this to happen.
I’m sorry for the length of this post. It was not my intention to bore. I simply felt it needed to be said. I will return to lurking in the shadows now. Take Care.