Humiliation Factor in Big Breast Fact/ Fiction

ThinWhiteDuke · « **Reply #30 on:** September 24, 2006, 03:57:44 PM »

Cool. If someone's actually going to run with the idea, I'll go further and mention that the reason I agree with that statement to some extent is simply that any form of surgical alteration is just that; surgical alteration. It cannot be changed back unless the same rather arduous process is basically reversed. There's no safe word for breast implants where they can simply be removed.

It might also help to not have many hangups or inherent values placed on the idea of bondage. Which I'm guessing you don't but it might be a tough mental hill to climb for some people.

Mercerwatch · « **Reply #31 on:** September 24, 2006, 03:58:00 PM »

This is why i'm most interested in Big Bust culture dating from the 50's to the early 80's. Where breasts surgeries reductions and augmentations were still a rarity. Meaning if the subject was super-endowed she was natural and couldn't do anything about it. Anne marie, Joyce Gibson, Roxanne Brewer.

hugejugglover · « **Reply #32 on:** September 24, 2006, 04:05:56 PM »

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This doesn't involve big breasts, but it does fall into the "humiliation" category. http://www.sexyandfunny.com/DrPhotographer.shtml

What always amazes me about clips like this...the women are so embarrassed and/or angry when they think it's just one guy with a camera taking a photo of them naked. But, when they find out it's a practical joke (that's gonna be broadcast on television for millions to see), they just laugh and give the "you got me!" expression.

It is not a real practical joke, rigth?
I can't understand how women can be agreed that this will be show on television, it should be fake.

It certainly seems real to me. It's kind of like another "practical joke" from one of those blooper shows from England that was advertised in the U.S. a few years ago... A guy with a video camera goes to a nude beach a blatantly videotapes nude women, while a guy with a hidden camera catches the situation also. Then when the women get mad, the camera man points to the hidden camera and says "you're on Bloopers and Practical Jokes" (or whatever the name of the show was). Then the women just laugh and give the "oh I'm so embarrassed that I made such a fool out of myself by getting mad at you earlier" expression. Does that make any sense at all! I never have understood that. And apparently, in other countries it's not against the law to do things like that. That's kind of scary to me.

bigtitcreatures · « **Reply #35 on:** September 27, 2006, 04:18:46 PM »

humiliation in general is one of the biggest reasons i love big tits (pun intended) in the first place because they go hand in hand (or hand on tit, or tit on tit)

example... my wife's sexy and 40DD and can't wear a shirt or sweater, bra included, without seeing her nipples (bra) or montgomery glands ('bumps' on areola without bra...). she just cant hide her tits, nips, or cleavage. she gets stares whereever we go.

several male friends and relatives have even brought her voluptuousness to my attention along with the fact they were staring or couldn't believe what she was wearing (i rhymed). they are so awestruck they've gone into complete conversation with me about them.

for me humiliation of big tits exists regardless of how the endowed girl takes it. whether she is embarrassed/shy, accepting but modest, or proud and exhibiting its all just 3 flavors of the fact you have big tits and nearly everyone you meet in your walk of life will be aware of this. and that is hot as hell in my book!

tim333 · « **Reply #36 on:** September 27, 2006, 04:49:59 PM »

I don't know if I'm the only one, but this topic makes me extremely uncomfortable. This just seems misogynist and disregarding of women's feelings to me. Personally, I really don't understand where it comes from - to me, seeing a woman in a situation she's obviously seriously uncomfortable with is a huge turnoff. I like it when they look proud, self-confident, mischevious, or just like they're having fun. For example, I really can't enjoy pre-breast reduction stuff very often, since I know they must have been a problem. On the rare occasion that I do, I feel kind of guilty about it.

Hell, I'll admit that I've occasionally found a woman being frustrated at her large breasts to be a turn on, but not when they're really serious about it - that just makes me kind of sad. I'm worried that this side of the BE thing sets us against women. I showed this thread to my girlfriend, who is a really cool and open person (see my thread), and it creeped her out something fierce.

With all the times I've seen large-breast lovers unfairly represented as objectifying pigs who care not a bit for the person behind the tits and are harmful to the whole female gender, I'm afraid that stuff like this is just building onto the stereotype. I'm certainly not saying anyone here is actually like that, but reading some of these posts, can't you see how someone might take it that way?

Archangel_Dreadnought · « **Reply #37 on:** September 27, 2006, 05:10:27 PM »

You're not the only one that feels that way. I'm not all that fond of humiliation of the woman. I like it when the woman gets the better of the cause of BE or whatever happening to her. Nuttin funner than a would be inflatee getting the better of the would be inflator (insert your own titles as aplicable). I also like it that, if something imbarising happens, the woman laughs about it later when ever its brought up again. Course, the idea that a woman with large breasts as enough muscle to knock the teeth out of anyone who makes snide remarks apeals to me as well.

Confidence, my biggest turn on in women.

PS. I really really hate those japanesse comic porn that has the five guys groping a busty girl.

bigtitcreatures · « **Reply #38 on:** September 27, 2006, 05:50:33 PM »

I understand what your saying, but disagree.

There is a misconception that all those who appreciate elements of humiliation are 'single-minded' or pigheaded chevanists . While that may reflect a small population, most I know who share these feelings are very openminded and liberal with their own sexuality and have an admirable respect others in everyday life.

Eroticism and indulgence for the female body can be filled with complexity. While I'm not saying its for everyone, denying any mental / sexual feelings and exploration is limiting one's potential.

its simple. separate love, sex, and business and respect all 3 for what they are. be honest and true to (each other and) yourself. never holdback.

also note that being turned on by humiliation the same as humiliating someone. one must separate fantasy and reality... but generally speaking, for those who can't do this at this point take note, you're in for a rough road ahead of you

hugejugglover · « **Reply #39 on:** September 27, 2006, 05:54:32 PM »

I understand and respect your point Tim. But I think most of us are talking about "humiliation" as in... nipple slips, accidental breast exposure, when shirts are ripped off of busty models on pro-wrestling and they pretend to be embarrassed, etc, etc. Here's an example of what I mean... http://www.filefactory.com/file/39e115/

tim333 · « **Reply #40 on:** September 27, 2006, 08:21:38 PM »

Of course fantasy and reality should be kept seperate, but that does not mean that fantasy is completely innocuous, especially when it's out here where anyone can see it.

I'm definitely not against "humiliation" bits like the ones described in the post directly above this one - those are pretty harmless. And yes, there's pretty much always going to be some degree of being pleased at what another considers to be misfortune, however minor, in lovers of BE. But I've seen more people than I'm comfortable with slip too far into this category.

Let's face it, a lot of the real women whose experiences we find exciting would be hurt and angry to discover this fact. I'm not saying that this alone makes something wrong, but when one actually prefers women who hate their large and/or growing breasts, it gets pretty hard to reconcile that desire with healthy, consensual relationships. Sure, it's possible for a woman who's actually ok with something to play at being upset for the sake of fantasy, but surely this will be the minority of cases.

Really, I've seen this sort of thing too often lead to guys emphatically preferring for things to happen to a woman that excite them over what's actually good for that person. I wish I could say I thought that all or even most of the people thinking this way held it exclusively in the domain of fantasy, and had an underlying respect for women and would ultimately agree that it's best they do what's best for them (which can, for example, include things like a breast reduction for mainly emotional reasons, whether we like it or not), but I really don't.

jugghead · « **Reply #41 on:** September 27, 2006, 09:42:24 PM »

Funny, I just finished posting something in the huge penis reduction forum when I read this thread...

It's amazing how different the two sexes are.

hugejugglover · « **Reply #42 on:** April 26, 2007, 03:54:49 PM »

I ran across this clip recently, and thought it would fit this thread.
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/195393/anchor_woman_gone_topless/

ZastKay · « **Reply #43 on:** April 27, 2007, 10:43:32 AM »

best thread so far ...

I love when a woman has a killer body, but she doesn't feel comfortable with it... girls that try to avoid attention at any cost... but in the end they get it because they are hot ... and then ... something happens and leave them exposed ! ... that's my biggest turn on...

Groped girls , are the best...

this thread needs more pics

Kowalski · « **Reply #44 on:** April 27, 2007, 07:34:29 PM »

Well I have to agree with those who find humiliation a turn on. For myself, (and for many, I suspect) it is not contempt for women or mysogeny. Humiliation in all its forms - if we're talking about fiction here - is arrousing to me. That includes stories where the male is unwillingly feminized and given large breasts as well as those more convetional stories where the protagonist is a woman. And if a woman has huge boobs thrust on her unwillingly and is embarassed/mortified by the kind of attention they attract and the physical impedement they may present in her life, that is not to say I do not wish to see her "work through" these difficulties and come to a new appreciation of her expanded breasts, a new compromise with her predicament. Basically, "become a more sexual and a more sexualized version of yourself, whether you like it or not!" The only truly sadistic part of that is the begining where her fate is sealed against her will. Or where she is made to "wish" for bigger boobs, then is humiliated when her big boobs begin to control her life and dictate her actions. The rest is the heroic story of her working her way out of that hole and discovering her fate has its up side. Etc.

The burden and embarassment of large breasts in real life is another matter. I think there is something to this idea of "breast bondage", i.e. no safe word for huge boob removal. Yet the physical/sexual power they endow the woman with are a kind of compensation. She's in bondage, but so are we in her presence.

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