High school is a difficult time to try to tame the beast in your pants. I remember being called to the blackboard with a "hard on" that decided to show up right after a female student did her presentation at the blackboard. I flatly refuse to go to the board (pun intended) But in spite of refusing to go to the board I was given a nickname the Whopper because of the constant appearing bulge in the pants. I went thru a lot of underwear with the first place the hole would form is where the bulge would form. Boxer shorts didn't work because it would fall down to one side and then lift up the shorts from the outside with the hard on. Started wearing 2 layers of underwear hoping to keep the damn thing contain. Then my first job was washing dishes and had to wear the apron and that made the bulge stick way out. Hot water splashing to the side of the apron didn't help. Later when I get a steady girlfriends as years goes by there isn't a single one of them that didn't the play games of how much can I hold while hanging coats, towels, fruits off my banger. The most notable day was the nite that My school had a game and the girls cheerleader locker room was lock and they had to go thru the boys locker room and my being hard of hearing failed to heed warning that the girls was going thru the lockers while I was taking a wizz, and about 5 girls stop to watch me go at the urinal, and then ran when I caught them looking. When I finally got on the team bus, I got a huge applause and a cheer from the girls. I turn so red I just sat down and cowered in embarrassment. As **24** came out I had a chat with several of the old cheerleading classmate and was told several stories of the incident that didn't seem to fade from their memories. They were surprise that it was that big and soft, as I was. I avoid going in showers with the other guys as I was the nerd of the team. So I never look at the others boys package, as far as I knew I was normal. We didn't have porn for girls back then. I was never curious about it, but raise in a strict bible belt of the Midwest to keep them private. I didn't know that mine soft was still bigger than most men when they are hard. The other thing that most of the girls notice is that my hard on took a little more time, and they thought it was because I wasn't a perv that wanted to get into their pants, but get to know them first or something like that. But that was not the case it did take me a while to build up to the erection, and to deflate back down as well. I was discourage to pull out right away, that they wanted me to wait till it was safe to pull out as it would hurt if I did too soon. Once I was in, it made changing position quite tricky. I had to move carefully to change position. Because of that I rarely change while hard. Also had to stay in until release. accidentally pulling out was painful for them. shorter stroke was better than long stroke with a very thick shaft. I have no opinion of blowjobs, as no one was able to keep doing it once I get hard. It was always something to get it going and then quit when semi erect. I have never felt a release from BJ. Even a hand job is difficult, but I do recommend hiding the helmet with a pair of big knockers. That is the main reason why I like big knockers, big enough to get around the shaft. Big boobs is a godsend for my circumstances. Im 6 long almost 8 round, hence the whopper nick. All research I found it that there is no way to make them skinnier by stretching them, and in fact that it would end up making them even bigger if I try to pump them. So I am quitting while ahead( yes more puns, can't help it) I once post a pic with 3 quarters across the shaft at a penis forum. I found out thru my stent operation that one side of my heart the vessel were smaller then the other side from birth defect and once the stent was put in my blood pressure drop immeasurable. I think maybe having a slightly higher blood pressure from teen years than normal may have contributed my size? I can't say for sure, but note that I am not in the norm for my unusual size. I have had women turn me down because of size, but also have maintain a long relationship, so I don't think I terribly forbidden to have a relationship, not like that one guy with a 13 inch long penis. I think the first month might be hard, but after awhile the women do adjust to the size. I think its more to do with the fear than physical to be able to relax to take in the size. No matter how big you are, they were made to give birth of a full grown baby. Which doesn't even come close to the largest penis.