Yo.
I think it's worth taking a step back for a second.
I would be the first to admit - a mistake has been made, one that that robbed the earth of one of it's truly amazing, (almost) irreplaceable natural resources. It _is_ saddening.
But note I said Almost - there still are other truly amazing breasts out there. We should have some perspective, especially since we're, ahem, experts on this topic...
And really, if you think you're feeling bad about this, dig this other idea: Look at what LDM did herself - she went and obviously spent a pile of money, energy, pain to try to fix this. She _herself_ realizes the depth of the mistake she made.
Can you imagine the immensity of how she felt, when she finally realized the Damage she did to herself? And what she lost?
Can't we give her a break? Just remember fondly how it once was, and try to be gracious about about the difficulty of trying to recapture just a part of what she had?
Whatever reason she had at the time, I don't think she was doing it TO us... Don't take it personally.
-D'Artagnian (PB)
EDIT: post script -
I just went back and reread a lot of the earlier part of this thread. I guess in a sense I'm not saying that much new here, other than whining a bit for you all to show some kindness. Human nature being what it is, I'm probably wasting my and your time with this line of thinking.
Bottom line - she doesn't fit our paradigm anymore. We don't have to like it, we don't have to think that we need to like it. There is a market for images of women with smaller breasts than we like, perhaps she can function there.
I just imagine her reading a BBS thread like this, and thinking what a bunch of assholes we all are.