[LAGuy]

I've been lurking forever, but finally decided to join up. I need some advice.

My girlfriend (I'll call her Kelly) is beautiful inside and out. We've been together for about 6 months. I'd post a picture here but she'd kill me. Best thing about her is she likes BIG TITS! She's 5'4, 115 pounds and she's a 34DD, 22, 32. She started out as a B cup (before I met her) and went up to DD about 2 years ago. She's 23 years old.

Sometimes, we look at big tit pics online. I started Kelly off looking at Pam and Jordan pics but over time we started looking at some of the big bust Photoclub stuff. At first, she said she thought it was disgusting, but now I know she's more into it. Over the past week or so, she's started asking if she should go up to an E--but I've been kinda noncommittal because I'm not sure if she's serious.

Guys, if it was up to me I'd say go up to a G or an H, but it's her body and I respect that. Still, if I think my girlfriend is tempted to get into the super big game, how can I help her move in this direction while respecting that it's completely her decision?  

[**DONOTDELETE**]

sup LAguy,
glad you decided to join!

as for kelly, in my opinion i would leave it entirely up to her.  however, just be totally honest with her.  if shes asking you what size you would like to see her be, tell her.  if shes asking do you think she would look good as a E, tell her yes or no.  regardless, if you and her both wanted to see her become a G or H, its probably good to go to an E to begin with to start the expansion process (getting used to bigger breasts, stretching the skin for larger implants, etc).

in my opinion, if shes keen on going to Es, cool.  she can always go bigger from there.  hope that helps!  

[Mammeister]

I bet your girlfriend started out as a AA cup long before you met her but that's another story.

If she can get her titties to grow that big just by wishing them so, she's our dream girl. She could make a fortune selling her method for natural breast enlargement.

I personally prefer huge naturals to implants but they are hard to come by (and easy to cum by!).  

[jaytas]

Right. I am assuming she knows you like larger breasts. If this is the case the way I would handle it is as follows.


This is me talking to a girlfriend in this situation (as in first person).........


" Honey. As you must know by now I love you both inside and out as you are. You know that I have this thing for bigger breasts. But the decision is totally up to you. Irrespective of what you decide please keep the following in consideration at all times. I love larger breasts. I love you and respect whatever decision you choose to make regarding this matter. I will not deny that it would be a turn on for me to see you larger but this would only be a plus to a great relationship we have already. Also, not that I wish to put you off this decision, but consider the consequences both physical and emotional that you will have to go through. Get an opinion or some general idea from somebody who has been in the situation and consider what you will be going through but never forget that I will be there 100% for you. Nay make that 1,000%."......




Right. That is about how I would handle it. Basically you are saying it her decision. You are saying you will love her either way but not denying that due to your liking for larger breasts they would not be a plus in your life.



Cheers and have fun

[The Warlock]

Tell her however big she wants to be is absolutely fine with you.  And leave it at that, don't push either way.

The Warlock  

[MrHHH]

Close. It the answer should be "What the hell does it matter what I think?"

Mostly because if she goes bigger and isn't happy with them, every day she'll be reminded by them and that you wanted them.

If she's serious, you can help her out. Buy some bigger bras and stuff them, or whatever. Heck, play around. Grab some of her old shirts and show her what she'd look like with bigger  boobs.

But the worse reason would be for her to go bigger because she feels insecure from you looking at all these big boob girls.
 

[rtpoe]

Check out Melonie and Vixen's post here in this Forum; and look in the Real World forum as well.

rtpoe  

[Zasha]

When I first started thinking out loud about an augmentation, my hubby was very worried that I might be doing it solely to make him happy.

He was/is adamant that I'm doing it for myself.

I know that deep down inside, he's excited about the prospect of me having my rack back, sort of, but he tries very hard not to show it; he doesn't want to have any influence over my choice (he knows how I think).

I know that he will be supportive of me, even if, for some reason, I wind up not going through with it (that's pretty much out of the question though, as I've spent a few thousand dollars on my order - I just wish they'd show up).

The main thing is to be supportive of her, no matter what her choice may be.

 

[TheHerald]

rtpoe and Zasha (and others)covered what I would have said, but let me put an emphasis on some of it. Invite your gf to read all the pros and cons talked about in these forums (Real World.. especially, but not exclusively). Invite her to ask questions in the Real World.. forum, using your account if she doesn't want to create her own).

Also, as Zasha tossed off almost lightly, this operation costs alot of money. Can she really afford this at this time? (in my experiance, 23yr olds usually can't)  

[Psf_79]

What The Warlock said. And make sure it's really her who wants them for herself.

Maybe you should hook her up with the BE Queens of the forum, I'm sure they'd make her a convert for good.

[LAGuy]

Thanks everyone for your thoughts. Just a few things. First off, I'd never pressure her. If you knew her, you'd know that isn't an issue. My gf is a very upfront "ballsy" chick and not at all shy sexually. We started looking at the sites because she wanted to know what I was into. She also wanted to show me what she liked. etc. etc. It wasn't like Clockwork Orange where I forced her to look at the screen.

As for if she's interested for herself or me, this is all I know. I have come onto my browser on mornings when she stayed over and found big boob sights near the top that I didn't browse. Whether she's looking at them out of curiosity, or sending a subtle message, I'm not sure.

Finally, being this is LA, 23 year old women can have plenty of money. My gf has done steady web modelling, commercials, etc. In fact, the first question she asked about big bust girls is whether the fetish is big enough to make a decent living.  

[sheber]

All this time I thought a "DD" was the same size as an "E"....(with my standard exemptions)

[Rafe]

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I know that deep down inside, he's excited about the prospect of me having my rack back, sort of, but he tries very hard not to show it; he doesn't want to have any influence over my choice (he knows how I think).

Z, this is -exactly- what K & I are going through as well [or, were, prior to the "Hypnotism" thread (for those of you who've skipped it in the "Real Life" forum, I haven't **101** K into wanting a bust upgrade, we're looking at it as an alternative option that's both a nice way to spend time together and connect & relax, and is also much easier on our limited bank accounts.  Just to clarify)].

She knows I like 'em big, and she wishes hers were bigger [for both aesthetic and *ahem* "recreational" reasons].  The fact that going bigger would make -both- of us happier is simply gravy.

[Zasha]

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Also, as Zasha tossed off almost lightly, this operation costs alot of money.    

I certainly didn't mean to sound flippant about the price tag...This IS a very expensive endeavour, if high quality is the goal.  It's been a while since the cheque has cleared for the implants, and I've gotten used to the expense of the repeated "advisory meetings" with my Doc, so it doesn't sting quite so much to mention the price (though I DO wish they would hurry up and get here).  

I've seen other girls (at the club, on the web, and at various gyms) that had "cut-rate" augmentations.  Very sad...Big scars, bag wrinkles, ambliopic nipples (someone here even came up with something else:  The "softball in a sock" look)...I refuse to succumb to the "price war" and go on the cheap just to get bigger.

There are other costs in addition to the price, as well...You should fervently encourage her to do extensive research...You are on line, so you have access to nearly every avenue of knowledge...I'd highly suggest www.implantinfo.com as a starting point, if she hasn't been there already.

And do a search here for any of Melonie Charms' posts...

[DD_Red_Shoes]

Theres some good advice here on this forum and from the other discussion threads from people that have been there done that.
Essentially you need to figure out whether she wants to get bigger because of you. If not then why is getting bigger so much more important to her now? Did the size up to DD excitied her? If so in what way? I mean she could be under the notion of going through the excitment that puberty brought to her again, when they grew naturally.
I guess I am trying to say that their are 1001 reason s to get the boobs bigger, and 1001 reasons not to, the important aspects about the whole process is that what is motivating it, does the benefits out weigh the burdens, and of course after all that, is it worth it for all involved both physically and emotionally. Only then will you know that this notion of getting E-cups is either a fleeting wilm or a true ambition. At the end of the day what is going to be happier for both of you's, bigger boobs, or realising that there is something deeper driving the need for them, that needs to be taken care of first.
I think you get all the information about this process, and you can get personal testomonials from some people in here, but it's your lives, we don't know how they work, only you do, so therefore it's all up to you and your girlfriend.
We can guide and advice, but we shouldn't and realistically we couldn't help you decide for you.
Catch ya
DD_Redshoes