you're a gift to mankind 
no returns without receipt

How to approach a bad kitty. 
heeeee, having a kitty-moniker is just so wonderfully exploitable for meme crossovers

HAHA! awesome, you da man!
um, no, not exactly.
but I appreciate your overarching sentiment

It is so important to be a lady. Many women miss that these days, but I would never become involved with a woman who didn't at least try.
"There is no try. There is only do, or do not." ~ Yoda

I'm not completely sure I'd call my brand of demeanor "ladylike", it depends on how you define the term. But I do pride myself on poise, stoicism, and to a lesser extent, manners. Well, in public anyway, in private I mostly pride myself on sickening levels of cuteness. Not that I can't play at nearly any other demeanor, but I have my default settings.
As for gender stereotypes, in a nutshell "I change my own oil, but I wear rubber gloves to keep my nails pretty".
I dunno, the bad kitty in the picture 'ordering wild turkey' just struck me as a very different sort of person than myself. I mean, I know you can't put much weight into appearances alone, but her body language, level of inebriation, second line of her t-shirt, and her sign language, all just kinda completely don't remind me of me. I agree she has nice abs though, nicer than mine.