I hope she doesn't disappear again.... sometimes I just hate the internet these days.
In the old days you could just quietly chat amongst yourself and share pics of amazing girls. Now there's guys looking for hookups, guys looking to humiliate girls to their friends and family, and people who want to "protect" every woman on the internet.
Just... why?
Because, not all people but some people, are imbalanced jerks who either have no sense of altruism or take it to such an extreme as to be smothering to an insulting level.
And there are many roads to imbalance and/or skewed perspective.
Unfortunately, I get the impression that some of our evolved traits (survival or otherwise) lurk in the subconscious, acting without the light of day - not giving us the opportunity to actually Think.
-D'Artagnian
Consider mindful actions.