Pretty much. I have a new motto: Beware of grandmothers under 30 and goths over 50.
How come high school sex ed classes never get into important and useful stuff?
"Never play cards with a man called Doc. Never eat at a place called Mom's. Never fuck a woman crazier than you are."~Nelson Algren
I've violated each of Algren's hard-won truths, which is why at various times I've had no money, food poisoning, and more trouble than could handle. But I've never let anybody except a working clinician stick anything up the Magic Wand.