[bignatslover]

It is hard not to think that having an awesome rack would be a major positive defining force in a woman's life.
Because no matter what happens to you, for richer or for poorer, there you still are with those amazing knockers that strike lust into the heart of every man (and many women).
You could make a list of the ten most desirable people you have ever seen, and go seduce them all with your incredible chest.
If you're having a bad hair day, you don't have to worry because your zeppelin-like boobs are the ultimate modifier and they still add a +10 to your charisma wherever you go.

Yes, I understand some people don't find big breasts attractive (I do not trust those people).
Yes, I understand clothes are not made with busty women in mind (but we don't tell athletic people to get a muscle reduction).
Yes, I understand woman get uneasy with too much public breast attention (but we don't tell a woman with a pretty face to scar herself to reduce stares).

Any negative aspects one can drum up seem to pale in comparison to the simple fact that: BIG TITS OVERSHADOW EVERYTHING! (including feet and toes).

[ayrton]

I would think the positives would out do the negatives.   I would be like having a big cock that was noticeable even with clothes on.   If nothing else you could make money  with them.   

[jtg987]

in short, yes.

depends on the girl that has them.

[roap]

Yes, large-breasted women lead charmed lives.  Unfortunately, they usually don't realize that their boobs are the source of their "good luck".  For example, they might mistakenly think that all of the attention they get is for their "personality".  Then they get breast reductions and wonder why nobody likes them anymore (e.g. Linsey McKenzie).

[Shara]

such short-sighted male answers... it's give and take. I'm waiting for Ms. Pacman for a full discourse on this

[Pacman]

I'll tell you this much: she gets treated better from me than I have ever treated any woman.

[Feral]

Depends on the woman, how she dresses and how she carries herself.

They can be used for good and evil, but the door seems to swing both ways. A woman who uses them for attention and to get "ahead" of the game has to also put up with that attention when she doesn't want it. I guess the same can be said of any woman who is attractive and dresses and acts seductively, but big boobs are certainly more prone to be noticed. A woman of average looks could get more stares and attention with a huge rack then a more attractive woman with small or average chest I think - at least from me.

In short, I don't think the average woman with big boobs necessarily wants the attention because the negatives outweigh the positives.

I think a woman who wants attention will get it no matter what whether she is big boobed or not by the way she carries herself and the way she dresses. She'll accent whatever it is she has, hair, legs, butt, height, eyes, etc..

[MrsPacman1]

Hmmm. If you're a model, and your big boobs support you financially... then my guess would be that yes, you lead a charmed life.

For those of us who live in the real world, and choose not to make a living with our big boobs...I can answer that question.

If by CHARMED you mean:

Not being taken seriously, especially when you're dealing with lesser evolved men.
Little or no eye contact. Ever.
Not fitting into your size clothing, and having to decide on looking bigger overall (larger sizes) or too tight clothing, thus giving the perception of you attracting (unwanted) attention.
Not having many women friends.
Always wondering if you were treated well because you were smart, talented, witty, etc...or if it was because you have big boobs.
Backaches, neck aches, headaches and poor posture. I don't care how fit you are...it happens. Period.
Not finding bra's that you like (as discussed in another thread).
Rashes, sweat and discomfort ALL year...not just the summer months (as discussed in another thread).
Pictures and video being taken of you without your permission to be used on various websites, blogs and God knows where else (oh snap).
Not seeing the ground very often, and tripping over items blocked from view.
The stares...both positive and negative. Especially the ones where someone's husband can't keep his tongue in his mouth while he's with his wife and little ones (UGH!!).
People, namely men, expecting you to enjoy and even reciprocate their attentions (ring a bell anyone?).

Then I guess we DO lead a charmed life!

Hell, I like having the boobs I have...and would like to have bigger. But that's for me. Not for anyone else. Well, maybe for Pacman  . However, for every positive thing I have ever had happen as a direct result of my boobs....there's double the negative. I will agree with Feral on this one for the most part.

Mrs*the free drinks Pac and I used to get were pretty cool, though*Pacman

[Q_BE]

I have a busty friend who I would say agrees completely with Feral and MrsPacman, especially with consideration of an average female's view on the negatives and positives of very large breasts.

My friend is not very comfortable with her breasts; in fact she, wishes she could downsize.

I have had little success in convincing her that her breasts are as wonderful as I think they are. The main problem with that is I have tried to be her positive reinforcer, but my own desires and my honest nature and acerbic wit have not lent themselves to my aid. Many are the times I wish I could have just held my tongue or changed the topic of conversation, but in her presence it sometimes seems like I can't think straight, and I think she knows it.

Deep down inside, I am sure she must enjoy this amazing power over me. She has only been my friend for a few months, but she has really gotten into my psyche and taken me on as a "project"—a boob-man who needs a serious re-education about how to treat big-boobed women, specifically her. I long for the day when I can show her the wonderful sensations her breasts might be able to provide. I sincerely feel that she has never experienced the true adoration a boob-man of my caliber (he he he) would demonstrate in regards to her beautiful figure. To further my cause, I am asking for all the good boob-men here to send their positive vibes my way.

I know I can get through to her—the buttkicker is, she doesn't often wear bras that fit, mostly because there really are no bras for someone her size. This, I feel, is the primary reason she dislikes her breasts. They are very difficult for her to have, and I'd wager if she could cut down on the pain she experiences, her attitude would change, as well.

Q-"Wish me luck!"-BE

[Shara]

such short-sighted male answers... it's give and take. I'm waiting for Ms. Pacman for a full discourse on this

as stated

[MrsPacman1]

I think my wife just posted a list of how to give me a rod.

[pedonbio]

I have known, **84** with, got **92** with, lived with, laughed and cried with, **92** coffee with, married, divorced, and talked with at least my fair share of big-boobed women, and I've heard all the negatives above and then a few:

Casting producer: "This is a serious play. No blondes with big tits." He wasn't joking.

Choreographer: "You with the big tits--Lose some weight." She wasn't joking.

[Pacman]

ARGH GODDAMMIT... I didn't sign her ass out....

I'll try this again...

I think my wife just posted a list of how to give me a rod.

Sorry honey, I'll be more mindful of my browser sessions.

[Q_BE]

ARGH GODDAMMIT... I didn't sign her ass out....

I'll try this again...

I think my wife just posted a list of how to give me a rod.

Sorry honey, I'll be more mindful of my browser sessions.

You can still delete the post if it's within the 24-hour window.

Q-"Try and see"-BE

[pedonbio]

ARGH GODDAMMIT... I didn't sign her ass out....

The lending library theory of erotic experience?