Time to bump this decade-old thread
I've been doing some research into becoming what is known as a NEMO: a non-ejaculatory multi-orgasmic man.
We often think that orgasm must be followed inevitably by ejaculation, which leads to a "refractory period" (i.e. we lose our erection and cannot ejaculate for some time). Turns out that this inevitability can be circumvented. It is possible to separate the orgasm from the ejaculation, hence enabling you to become erect, engage in coitus, have an orgasm, repeat, have another orgasm, etc. until you finally ejaculate.
Sheer laziness has made me yet to engage on the course of training that would make this possible. Well, that, and currently I have no main squeeze with which to practice on. But if you want to find out how to turn yourself into a NEMO, there are a number of books and courses available. For instance:
KSMO – The Key Sound Multiple Orgasm Trigger for Men & Women™, by Jack Johnston
No clenching of the butt cheeks, no holding back, no Kegels involved. Just learn how to make a particular roaring sound and you'll be able to have multiple orgasms. May even be a non-medicine-needed cure for erectile dysfunction too. I like this training course (well, I like the
idea of it -- I haven't yet decided to
pony up the cash for it) because it needs no equipment, no special drugs or anything, and is apparently quite simple to learn: with practice you should be able to be NEMO in three or so weeks. Just hope your neighbors don't call the cops, or look at you funny in the morning
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know by
Mantak Chia &
Douglass AbramsThe classic text that goes into the Taoist philosophy behind becoming a NEMO.
This article gets to the gist of it.
True Male Multiorgasmic ResponseWhich goes into a bit of detail about the famous case studied at Rutgers University, about a man who could have multiple bouts of ejaculation without any refractory period whatsoever. Very interesting and very exciting.
Wild Nights: Conversations with Mykonos about Passionate Love, Extraordinary Sex, and How to Open to God by
David DeidaI haven't read this yet but some of the reviews of the book remind me of the reaction of
Robert Kiyosaki's
Rich Dad, Poor Dad. So take that into account
Then there are a few forum posts and various articles that give you more insight, and take you deeper into Tantra and stuff, like:
RSD Nation:
"How To Become Multi-Orgasmic"White Lotus East:
"Multiple Orgasm"Multi-Orgasmic.com:
"Experience Multiple Orgasms"...but the first two links I talked about will probably take you where you want to go as quickly as possible.
Who knows, I may finally decide to plonk down some money and get that Johnston course. Maybe I'l need to take a month off work and hire a shack in the mountains so I don't wake up the neighbors...
I'll keep you all posted.