Rhiannon,
Please pay no attention to Shadowcom. When he appears, it's always to make some sweeping negative declaration that he apparently expects everyone to take as "fact". For example, when Keisha Evans announced that she wanted to be even bigger than she is now, Shadowcom stated flatly that no, she wasn't going to be any bigger. That it was simply impossible and she should give up that dream.
WTF?
Most of us cannot understand his logic and choose to ignore it. I suggest you do the same.
BTW, love your look. Especially the lips.