*dies laughing* Respectful attitude? I'm sorry, that's just funny. This coming from a forum that has more or less systematically driven off most female posters over the last several years.
That's a staggering distortion of the truth you've posted... to use the word 'most' to describe a mere handful of incidents is either intentionally dishonest or simply ignorant. Of the numerous female posters here over the past decade+ only a relatively tiny handful have left for what seemed to be reasons of dissatisfaction on their part... in fact, I'd be hard pressed to say that the % of female users who did so is any higher than the % of male users who did the same. For either (apparent) gender, there will ALWAYS be some folks who get a negative reaction and leave as a result, be the reason their own actions or the actions of other users (which we do NOT control beyond adherence to the Owner's rules). You might also consider that female users have been booted for habitual rule violations, just like male users.
This is essentially a PUBLIC forum, and anyone visiting it should bear that in mind: just like in the real world, NO ONE controls the reactions they get from others, just as YOU don't control MY reaction to your misinformational post.
If you've got an axe to grind, or some specific problem you want to resolve, that's fine: contact either a moderator or a customer care rep via PM or EM and we'll help you with it as best you can. Otherwise, if you insist on attempting to advance your private agenda via mistruth/revisionist history, be prepared to be called out on it.