[Shadowmuse Blown]

Nancy Quill.  What do you think the size would be?

I don’t know this woman. Do you have any photos of her you an post?

Her thread happens to be on the first page in General Discussion, at the moment

https://forum.bearchive.com/index.php?topic=596327.0

Difficult to say - although, those look like implants?

She’s in the big territory - not height-wise - she seems short(ish). But she has a very slim back and not terribly broad shoulders, so she’s definitely a low back size - and proportionately, big cup size, so I’m going to estimate in the 32K/KK territory.

Yes, implants

[Shadowmuse Blown]

Did we do Carmen Sandi, yet?  Says she’s a 36M cup.

For more references see https://forum.bearchive.com/index.php?topic=10001074.0

[Margaret]

Did we do Carmen Sandi, yet?  Says she’s a 36M cup.

For more references see https://forum.bearchive.com/index.php?topic=10001074.0

She might be wearing a 36M, but I don’t think she’s a 36M in a bra.

She’s too small to be wearing a 36 back, and M cup is much bigger than that.

She’s probably a 32 back (34 at a push) and up in the KK/L category.

I’d need to see a non-forced perspective shot to give a better assessment - and, perhaps a photo of her in a decent-fitting bra.

I’m going to say 32KK.

[Hiram]

There was a time when I thought I had a great figure. Probably not so much now. Getting too old!

You made think about something a female friend said to me once.  She said that when she was in her prime, when getting ready to go out, she often admire herself in the mirror.  From her expression; I assumed in an erotic sort of way.   

She had a good body - I guess a good body is attractive, even for the person who owns it?  This has never been my own experience - I guess the same for the majority of men. 

My principle has always been that if you get the band size right, the rest will follow.

Good advice.

So today I thought - side boob - can I see a mark on her skin where the band went?  My guess is 34H (if that is actually is a size)

[Margaret]

There was a time when I thought I had a great figure. Probably not so much now. Getting too old!

You made think about something a female friend said to me once.  She said that when she was in her prime, when getting ready to go out, she often admire herself in the mirror.  From her expression; I assumed in an erotic sort of way.   

She had a good body - I guess a good body is attractive, even for the person who owns it?  This has never been my own experience - I guess the same for the majority of men. 

My principle has always been that if you get the band size right, the rest will follow.

Good advice.

So today I thought - side boob - can I see a mark on her skin where the band went?  My guess is 34H (if that is actually is a size)

I think all people (women in particular) have difficult relationships with their bodies. I know I have, over the years. I’ve never been quite happy with it - whether it be weight gain/loss, post-baby fat, boobs expanding (and rarely contracting), clothes not fitting etc. However, there’s the odd time that I buy something nice and really feel good in it - and sometimes even feel proud of my shape. Although, I am the last person in the world to flaunt my curves or dress provocatively. I’m always conscious of stares and judgement. But, I will say this: when you find a man (or woman) whose jaw drops when they see you in lingerie (or naked), there’s few better feelings. It’s a huge confidence boost.

So, on to this new lady. It’s difficult to judge because the photo has been taken at a weird angle - so the boobs look bigger than they probably are. However, they look big - 34H is not a million miles away, but I have no way of knowing for sure what the band size would be. But the cup size is going to be big, probably H-J, but a smaller back size is perhaps going to mean smaller cup size (GG/H).

And yes, that looks like band marks. Very common. When models go to photo shoots, they’re always advised not to wear a bra on the day - just a vest or t-shirt, otherwise when they take off their clothes, their body looks like someone has been drawing lines all over them. Hence, when you see naked models, their boobs look smooth and appealing to the eye (with no crease marks). Body makeup also helps.

[Hiram]

I think all people (women in particular) have difficult relationships with their bodies.

I agree. Certainly all the female partners I've had have to a certain degree.   I have female friends that I will make a point of complementing, whether it be the new hairstyle or that bit of weightloss.  It is what I am thinking anyway.  Personally, (and I like to think all men think like this) as long as they are healthy, I'm more than happy with how they look.

I like to see a woman in lingerie, and my jaw has been on the floor a number of times.  But I think it is hard to convey the sense of appreciation without seeming seedy.  I like the aesthetic of a woman's body, it isn't all sexual.

I will try to find some better pictures - I was thinking of animated pics - maybe that would help.

[Hiram]

Bit of a test post.

[Margaret]

Bit of a test post.

Relatively easy this one - probably in the 28FF/30F range. Really slim back, full on bottom and curved out - so reasonably big in the cup. 

Edit: interestingly, she claims she’s a 34H, but her back doesn’t seem broad enough for a 34. I could be wrong though - but a 34H is generally much broader and more full in the boobs. (See attached from @theirishbralady)

[Margaret]

I think all people (women in particular) have difficult relationships with their bodies.

I agree. Certainly all the female partners I've had have to a certain degree.   I have female friends that I will make a point of complementing, whether it be the new hairstyle or that bit of weightloss.  It is what I am thinking anyway.  Personally, (and I like to think all men think like this) as long as they are healthy, I'm more than happy with how they look.

I like to see a woman in lingerie, and my jaw has been on the floor a number of times.  But I think it is hard to convey the sense of appreciation without seeming seedy.  I like the aesthetic of a woman's body, it isn't all sexual.

I will try to find some better pictures - I was thinking of animated pics - maybe that would help.

Regarding compliments to women, I’ve found that when men compliment something about you that isn’t about your body, it’s more pleasant and less leery or creepy. Saying something like “have you changed your hair? It looks great.” Or “cool trainers” or “I love your jacket” - are better than a compliment like “your figure looks amazing” or “you have incredible legs” or something like that. Alternatively, just say nothing - just be nice.

[solvegas]

I think all people (women in particular) have difficult relationships with their bodies.

I agree. Certainly all the female partners I've had have to a certain degree.   I have female friends that I will make a point of complementing, whether it be the new hairstyle or that bit of weightloss.  It is what I am thinking anyway.  Personally, (and I like to think all men think like this) as long as they are healthy, I'm more than happy with how they look.

I like to see a woman in lingerie, and my jaw has been on the floor a number of times.  But I think it is hard to convey the sense of appreciation without seeming seedy.  I like the aesthetic of a woman's body, it isn't all sexual.

I will try to find some better pictures - I was thinking of animated pics - maybe that would help.

Regarding compliments to women, I’ve found that when men compliment something about you that isn’t about your body, it’s more pleasant and less leery or creepy. Saying something like “have you changed your hair? It looks great.” Or “cool trainers” or “I love your jacket” - are better than a compliment like “your figure looks amazing” or “you have incredible legs” or something like that. Alternatively, just say nothing - just be nice.

My experience has taught me that if any body part that women don't seem to get creeped out so much is if you compliment it, is their faces. Yes, boobs, butts, legs, etc can alienate the ladies unless it is in a private, intimate situation but in public situation, if you say something like, "Good morning, things must be going great, you've got such a beautiful smile!" the ladies will usually say, "Yes, thank you!" and the rest of the day will go well with her. In other words, be a gentleman. 

[Margaret]

I think all people (women in particular) have difficult relationships with their bodies.

I agree. Certainly all the female partners I've had have to a certain degree.   I have female friends that I will make a point of complementing, whether it be the new hairstyle or that bit of weightloss.  It is what I am thinking anyway.  Personally, (and I like to think all men think like this) as long as they are healthy, I'm more than happy with how they look.

I like to see a woman in lingerie, and my jaw has been on the floor a number of times.  But I think it is hard to convey the sense of appreciation without seeming seedy.  I like the aesthetic of a woman's body, it isn't all sexual.

I will try to find some better pictures - I was thinking of animated pics - maybe that would help.

Regarding compliments to women, I’ve found that when men compliment something about you that isn’t about your body, it’s more pleasant and less leery or creepy. Saying something like “have you changed your hair? It looks great.” Or “cool trainers” or “I love your jacket” - are better than a compliment like “your figure looks amazing” or “you have incredible legs” or something like that. Alternatively, just say nothing - just be nice.

My experience has taught me that if any body part that women don't seem to get creeped out so much is if you compliment it, is their faces. Yes, boobs, butts, legs, etc can alienate the ladies unless it is in a private, intimate situation but in public situation, if you say something like, "Good morning, things must be going great, you've got such a beautiful smile!" the ladies will usually say, "Yes, thank you!" and the rest of the day will go well with her. In other words, be a gentleman. 

Exactly. Before you speak, you should ask yourself the question “would I say this to a man?”

[solvegas]

I think all people (women in particular) have difficult relationships with their bodies.

I agree. Certainly all the female partners I've had have to a certain degree.   I have female friends that I will make a point of complementing, whether it be the new hairstyle or that bit of weightloss.  It is what I am thinking anyway.  Personally, (and I like to think all men think like this) as long as they are healthy, I'm more than happy with how they look.

I like to see a woman in lingerie, and my jaw has been on the floor a number of times.  But I think it is hard to convey the sense of appreciation without seeming seedy.  I like the aesthetic of a woman's body, it isn't all sexual.

I will try to find some better pictures - I was thinking of animated pics - maybe that would help.

Regarding compliments to women, I’ve found that when men compliment something about you that isn’t about your body, it’s more pleasant and less leery or creepy. Saying something like “have you changed your hair? It looks great.” Or “cool trainers” or “I love your jacket” - are better than a compliment like “your figure looks amazing” or “you have incredible legs” or something like that. Alternatively, just say nothing - just be nice.

My experience has taught me that if any body part that women don't seem to get creeped out so much is if you compliment it, is their faces. Yes, boobs, butts, legs, etc can alienate the ladies unless it is in a private, intimate situation but in public situation, if you say something like, "Good morning, things must be going great, you've got such a beautiful smile!" the ladies will usually say, "Yes, thank you!" and the rest of the day will go well with her. In other words, be a gentleman. 

Exactly. Before you speak, you should ask yourself the question “would I say this to a man?”

As a man, I would never compliment him about his looks. I don't swing that way. Now, if I know him and he is a happy mood, I would ask him, "Did you get laid?" 

[Hiram]

Saying something like “have you changed your hair? It looks great.” Or “cool trainers” or “I love your jacket” - are better than a compliment

I said "I like you wearing those trainers" just a few days ago to a female friend.   I may have thinking 'your boobs look great' but like you says, it isn't always comfortable to hear that.  Even for someone you know well.

What I have noticed is; colour is important to women. More so than men I feel, who are often colourblind (I am).  So, I may get a compliment like, "I like that color on you".  I'm going to struggle to reciprocate that though - I have no idea.  But I do notice her fashion.

I have had a woman compliment me on the colour of my lips - and it did make me feel slightly uncomfortable.

[solvegas]

I have had a woman compliment me on the colour of my lips - and it did make me feel slightly uncomfortable.

What brand and color lipstick do you use? 

[Hiram]

What brand and color lipstick do you use? 

ha ha.