[Margaret]

I had a crush on Gabrielle Drake when I was young, never knew she did nudes.

But what was her bust size?

Possibly something like 28D.

[Margaret]

I think the solution is always just to keep looking - and wear what makes you feel comfortable and happy.

I agree, and I think this gets easier as we get older.  I was in the supermarket recently, it is cold so I had a hat on. I took my hat off as I went in the shop.  The thing is, when I saw myself in the window when I left - my hair had been sticking up all the time.  I just chuckled to myself. I don't care think these days.

I’ve also bought outfits, dresses etc and come home and tried them on, but ended up sobbing at the sight of myself in the mirror. And then there’s times I get it right (not often!) and it feels amazing. The right dress/outfit/shoes/boots/hair/whatever has a transformational effect. You feel happy, comfortable and sexy.

Something that I am envious, but also not envious of women and their clothes.  I have never felt the highs and lows of my outfit.  Mine have always been, well, meh.  It would be great to have an outfit and feel I look good. I only feel like that if I wear a suit and tie, but there isn't much variety in it.

Now, minimiser bras - I’ve sort-of tried them. Not extreme ones (like binding), but just ones that flatten you down slightly (this was a long time ago), and they’re not great. I understand why some women would want to reduce the appearance of big boobs,

Binding sounds medieval. I assume minimiser bras don't have that great of an effect, and only for smaller ladies.

I kind of just dress in a way that doesn’t draw attention to my boobs. I’m not a prude, but I don’t like unwanted attention. Or stares (from anyone).

I have seen this stare myself, jeez probably done it too.  I wouldn't want it either.

The fashion for really tight yoga pants that women all seem to be wearing.  They really are very revealing, I honestly don't want to see this while I am picking some parsnips.  I'm not sure of this is confidence or ignorance on some women.

It’s a rare occasion when I show too much cleavage

I was going to ask you about cleavage. Its a tricky one. I feel it okay in a cocktail dress, but not at the supermarket.

I have friends who are happy for their boobs to be a big feature of their image - many women do.

I do know of women like that.  I also know women who have never used there boobs like that. I don't think a woman should define herself for just her chest.

it’s not flattering to dress like a young person

I do see that a lot where I live. It isn't just the clothes, the hair and the tan - it isn't a good look for a middle aged woman.

I wore short skirts/dresses and low cut tops. Nowadays, if I tried that, I’d look like something from a bad comedy sketch - so I dress to the occasion and to make myself happy and comfortable.

When you did dress in skirts/dresses and low cut tops (and I'm not sure how to phrase this) what were your thoughts when deciding what to wear?

When deciding, I usually just wore what I liked to wear. I wasn’t a fan of miniskirts or minidresses, as such, but if o wanted to wear one, I did. I always really liked short flairy skirts, and I was a massive fan of tea dresses (short, low cut ones). But I also liked a skirt suit (I had a herringbone one that I really loved). When I worked in an office in one of my early jobs as a teenager, I used to wear a short black pleated skirt, a blouse, opaque black tights with an really high denier - and black patent high heels. I always enjoyed wearing stuff like that - but, then again, I was younger, much slimmer (and while I had big boobs, they weren’t 30GGs).

[Hiram]

I wasn’t a fan of miniskirts or minidresses, as such, but if o wanted to wear one, I did.

I've never really liked the look to be honest.  Too revealing, but on a really hot day, yeah I can see the appeal.

I was a massive fan of tea dresses (short, low cut ones).

I will have to look that one up. (I just did, they look nice, stylish but comfortable).

But I also liked a skirt suit (I had a herringbone one that I really loved).

Yep love that look.

I used to wear a short black pleated skirt, a blouse, opaque black tights with an really high denier - and black patent high heels.

A classic style that I do like - I find women wearing that outfit slightly intimidating, but it looks great.

[Hiram]

I love this combi.  Almost like wedding lingerie if that is a thing.

I was a in a charity shop Saturday, they had a vintage wedding dress that was interesting, only £45.  I don't think it would fit me!  haha

[Margaret]

I love this combi.  Almost like wedding lingerie if that is a thing.

I was a in a charity shop Saturday, they had a vintage wedding dress that was interesting, only £45.  I don't think it would fit me!  haha

That is a nice combo. It’s been a long time since I wore a white bra and suspenders set. Even longer since I wore a wedding dress. Wedding dresses are another one of those magical things - it’s very difficult to describe the feeling, experience and emotion. I still have mine.

[Hiram]

It’s been a long time since I wore a white bra and suspenders set.

I feel that they only look really nice on someone with a darker skin tone, like a tan.  But that is just a preference on my part.

it’s very difficult to describe the feeling, experience and emotion. I still have mine.

Which is why I'd like to try one!

Here's some more on that outfit - I'll post a link due to the 1.1.1.1 rule.

https://www.primecurves.com/taryn-pretty-in-white-cosmid/

[Margaret]

It’s been a long time since I wore a white bra and suspenders set.

I feel that they only look really nice on someone with a darker skin tone, like a tan.  But that is just a preference on my part.

it’s very difficult to describe the feeling, experience and emotion. I still have mine.

Which is why I'd like to try one!

Here's some more on that outfit - I'll post a link due to the 1.1.1.1 rule.

https://www.primecurves.com/taryn-pretty-in-white-cosmid/

It’s a beautiful set - especially the bra. I’m not big on thongs though.

I can still remember trying out my wedding dress for the fitting - and, getting everything in place on the day; my hair, my lingerie (corset-style basque with suspenders), my makeup, the shoes and dress, my little borrowed blue garter. I don’t think I’ve ever felt so special or beautiful. Of course, after a few hours I was dying to get out of it! Long time ago now, but it was magical at the time. The only real way to describe it is truly like feeling like a princess for the day.

[solvegas]

It’s been a long time since I wore a white bra and suspenders set.

I feel that they only look really nice on someone with a darker skin tone, like a tan.  But that is just a preference on my part.

it’s very difficult to describe the feeling, experience and emotion. I still have mine.

Which is why I'd like to try one!

Here's some more on that outfit - I'll post a link due to the 1.1.1.1 rule.

https://www.primecurves.com/taryn-pretty-in-white-cosmid/

It’s a beautiful set - especially the bra. I’m not big on thongs though.

I can still remember trying out my wedding dress for the fitting - and, getting everything in place on the day; my hair, my lingerie (corset-style basque with suspenders), my makeup, the shoes and dress, my little borrowed blue garter. I don’t think I’ve ever felt so special or beautiful. Of course, after a few hours I was dying to get out of it! Long time ago now, but it was magical at the time. The only real way to describe it is truly like feeling like a princess for the day.

Believe me, you are still a Princess, or better yet, a Queen. 

[Margaret]

It’s been a long time since I wore a white bra and suspenders set.

I feel that they only look really nice on someone with a darker skin tone, like a tan.  But that is just a preference on my part.

it’s very difficult to describe the feeling, experience and emotion. I still have mine.

Which is why I'd like to try one!

Here's some more on that outfit - I'll post a link due to the 1.1.1.1 rule.

https://www.primecurves.com/taryn-pretty-in-white-cosmid/

It’s a beautiful set - especially the bra. I’m not big on thongs though.

I can still remember trying out my wedding dress for the fitting - and, getting everything in place on the day; my hair, my lingerie (corset-style basque with suspenders), my makeup, the shoes and dress, my little borrowed blue garter. I don’t think I’ve ever felt so special or beautiful. Of course, after a few hours I was dying to get out of it! Long time ago now, but it was magical at the time. The only real way to describe it is truly like feeling like a princess for the day.

Believe me, you are still a Princess, or better yet, a Queen. 

Why thank you. The subject of wedding dresses, wedding lingerie and all things wedding-related is one I could spend a LOT of time on. Even now, attending a wedding as a guest is a great experience (if you get the right outfit, that is) - the process of selecting an outfit is still as fraught (if only slightly less fraught than being the actual bride on the day).

It’s a really wonderful experience.

Is there a ‘big-boobed bride’ thread here on the BEA?

[Hiram]

Is there a ‘big-boobed bride’ thread here on the BEA?

I was going to post one of Abbi, but I can't seem to post today for some reason.

Edit:

I shall try a URL - https://static-eu-cdn.eporner.com/gallery/3P/ps/noOCbnaps3P/104416-abbi-secraa-nude.jpg

[Hiram]

I wonder if you've ever tried leather or more fetish styles of lingerie. I can't really say it is my thing, but I do find it interesting. 

I was looking at something the other day, and I can't for the life of me remember what it was.  I guess it was like spandex type lingerie, something like that.  All fascinating stuff.

And I have an estimation for you - What is a turnaround? - YouTube

[Shadowmuse Blown]

Is there a ‘big-boobed bride’ thread here on the BEA?

I didn’t see an answer to this. 

Yes: “Busty in a Wedding Dress?” thread found HERE

[Margaret]

Is there a ‘big-boobed bride’ thread here on the BEA?

Amazing - thank you.

I didn’t see an answer to this. 

Yes: “Busty in a Wedding Dress?” thread found HERE

[Margaret]

Is there a ‘big-boobed bride’ thread here on the BEA?

I was going to post one of Abbi, but I can't seem to post today for some reason.

Edit:

I shall try a URL - https://static-eu-cdn.eporner.com/gallery/3P/ps/noOCbnaps3P/104416-abbi-secraa-nude.jpg

That’s certainly something someone could try for wedding lingerie! Might need some support though…

[Margaret]

I wonder if you've ever tried leather or more fetish styles of lingerie. I can't really say it is my thing, but I do find it interesting. 

I was looking at something the other day, and I can't for the life of me remember what it was.  I guess it was like spandex type lingerie, something like that.  All fascinating stuff.

And I have an estimation for you - What is a turnaround? - YouTube

That’s a tricky one, as I don’t really have any other context to go with - but it’s going to be something like a 32F, maybe a 30G.

In terms of lingerie I’ve tried over the many years, I’ve never really tried “fetish” stuff - as such - but I’ve had a lot of varieties of every kind of lingerie; corset-style basques, normal basques, suspender sets - I have had leather-style bras and suspender sets (one was a sort of fake snakeskin material, it was really thin straps etc and didn’t do much for me). I’ve had all manner of colours, all manner of straps, buckles, clasps and clips. I’ve had baby dolls, knickers with built-in suspenders, corslettes, vintage lingerie, longline bras, bodyshapers, crotchless knickers, things that resemble dental floss and bras that wouldn’t wouldn’t withstand a light breeze. You won’t be surprised that most of this was purchased by my partner - and is often worn for no longer than around 40 minutes.

But the lingerie I’m happiest in is a nice bra set (Curvy Kate FTW), or a really comfortable bodyshaper (and in my younger days, I loved a bodyshaper with suspenders - but not so much now). Fetish stuff tends to be for the bedroom - it’s certainly something you can wear all day.

Wedding lingerie was they one exception - once I had found what I was looking for and was comfortable in.l, I wore it all day and loved it - and wore it many times afterwards, to the point where it was literally falling apart on me.