[Margaret]

I wonder if you've ever tried leather or more fetish styles of lingerie. I can't really say it is my thing, but I do find it interesting. 

I was looking at something the other day, and I can't for the life of me remember what it was.  I guess it was like spandex type lingerie, something like that.  All fascinating stuff.

And I have an estimation for you - What is a turnaround? - YouTube

That’s a tricky one, as I don’t really have any other context to go with - but it’s going to be something like a 32F, maybe a 30G.

In terms of lingerie I’ve tried over the many years, I’ve never really tried “fetish” stuff - as such - but I’ve had a lot of varieties of every kind of lingerie; corset-style basques, normal basques, suspender sets - I have had leather-style bras and suspender sets (one was a sort of fake snakeskin material, it was really thin straps etc and didn’t do much for me). I’ve had all manner of colours, all manner of straps, buckles, clasps and clips. I’ve had baby dolls, knickers with built-in suspenders, corslettes, vintage lingerie, longline bras, bodyshapers, crotchless knickers, things that resemble dental floss and bras that wouldn’t withstand a light breeze. You won’t be surprised that most of this was purchased by my partner - and is often worn for no longer than around 40 minutes.

But the lingerie I’m happiest in is a nice bra set (Curvy Kate FTW), or a really comfortable bodyshaper (and in my younger days, I loved a bodyshaper with suspenders - but not so much now). Fetish stuff tends to be for the bedroom - it’s certainly not something you can wear all day.

Wedding lingerie was they one exception - once I had found what I was looking for and was comfortable in.l, I wore it all day and loved it - and wore it many times afterwards, to the point where it was literally falling apart on me.

[Hiram]

Yes: “Busty in a Wedding Dress?” thread found HERE

I thought there was, but to be honest I wasn't sure.  Cheers for looking it up and stopping me starting a new thread.

[Hiram]

That’s a tricky one, as I don’t really have any other context to go with - but it’s going to be something like a 32F, maybe a 30G.

Cheers.

I’ve never really tried “fetish” stuff - as such - but I’ve had a lot of varieties of every kind of lingerie; corset-style basques, normal basques, suspender sets

Goodness, that pretty much covers all the types.

I have had leather-style bras and suspender sets

I've never really got the leather fetish and where it comes from.

I’ve had baby dolls, knickers with built-in suspenders, corslettes, vintage lingerie, longline bras, bodyshapers, crotchless knickers, things that resemble dental floss and bras that wouldn’t wouldn’t withstand a light breeze. You won’t be surprised that most of this was purchased by my partner - and is often worn for no longer than around 40 minutes.

Baby-doll always reminds me of vintage 70's adult movies.  Non of that sort of gear looks comfortable to wear.  Although I do love the look of a basque* or corsett.

I never buy ladies lingerie, not that I don't want too, but I'm not going to pressure someone to dress in a certain way.  I do like them to wear stockings suspenders in the bedroom, but that's about as far as I tend to go.  But at the end of the day, their choice.  And often I find sex is quite spontaneous. No time for dressing up.

But the lingerie I’m happiest in is a nice bra set (Curvy Kate FTW), or a really comfortable bodyshaper (and in my younger days, I loved a bodyshaper with suspenders

Personally I prefer that look.

Wedding lingerie was they one exception - once I had found what I was looking for and was comfortable in.l, I wore it all day and loved it - and wore it many times afterwards, to the point where it was literally falling apart on me.

Wedding lingerie is normally white? 

Yeah I love clothes like that - I have hats and gloves that fit that bill.

*Just looked up basque to see if I had the spelling corect and found this:  Pour Moi

[Margaret]

That’s a tricky one, as I don’t really have any other context to go with - but it’s going to be something like a 32F, maybe a 30G.

Cheers.

I’ve never really tried “fetish” stuff - as such - but I’ve had a lot of varieties of every kind of lingerie; corset-style basques, normal basques, suspender sets

Goodness, that pretty much covers all the types.

I have had leather-style bras and suspender sets

I've never really got the leather fetish and where it comes from.

I’ve had baby dolls, knickers with built-in suspenders, corslettes, vintage lingerie, longline bras, bodyshapers, crotchless knickers, things that resemble dental floss and bras that wouldn’t wouldn’t withstand a light breeze. You won’t be surprised that most of this was purchased by my partner - and is often worn for no longer than around 40 minutes.

Baby-doll always reminds me of vintage 70's adult movies.  Non of that sort of gear looks comfortable to wear.  Although I do love the look of a basque* or corsett.

I never buy ladies lingerie, not that I don't want too, but I'm not going to pressure someone to dress in a certain way.  I do like them to wear stockings suspenders in the bedroom, but that's about as far as I tend to go.  But at the end of the day, their choice.  And often I find sex is quite spontaneous. No time for dressing up.

But the lingerie I’m happiest in is a nice bra set (Curvy Kate FTW), or a really comfortable bodyshaper (and in my younger days, I loved a bodyshaper with suspenders

Personally I prefer that look.

Wedding lingerie was they one exception - once I had found what I was looking for and was comfortable in.l, I wore it all day and loved it - and wore it many times afterwards, to the point where it was literally falling apart on me.

Wedding lingerie is normally white? 

Yeah I love clothes like that - I have hats and gloves that fit that bill.

*Just looked up basque to see if I had the spelling corect and found this:  Pour Moi

Yes - wedding lingerie tends to be white. I had a corset/basque with white high top stockings for my wedding lingerie (and a little blue garter), which I took a long time to source, and I also got it altered slightly.

In terms of babydolls, I’ve had a few (mostly as gifts). One was from La Senza and had a front-fastening moulded cup bra (which wasn’t my size or style), and was made of couple-type semi-transparent black material. But I also had a Curvy Kate one (which *was* my bra size) and it was really lovely - the main issue is that you can’t really wear a babydoll under any clothes - it’s pretty much a sl33p wear garment, but is actually more “bedroom” wear (if you catch my drift). But, I once had a black marabou babydoll that my partner got me (Google it) - and all I can say is that it felt sooooo good on. I felt sooo sexy wearing it, and often sl33p wearing it. It’s long gone though.

As for basques (that Pour Moi one is a good example, if a tad uncomfortable looking) - there was a time I enjoyed wearing them (for fun - they’re not exactly comfort-wear), but I always preferred a bodyshaper.

Unfortunately, all of these items are not really big-boob friendly or terribly comfortable - they’re mostly a visual treat for someone else and largely designed to get the blood pumping. 😘

[Margaret]

I should add to this something I’ve been meaning to post about… bedroom wear and sl33pwear.

If you’re big-boobed, it’s really not a great idea sl33ping in a bra or anything with complex straps/underwires and tight bands. Some people do it, but I don’t recommend it. It can prolong pressure on your breast tissue and lead to medical issues and shape issues. Not to mention weal marks and sores. There are “sl33p” bras you can get (Curvy Kate do an “all day” bra with zero wires in it which I tested and it was fine, but just not for me). It’s better to go braless with either a slip or a pyjama top, or tshirt. Or - just go nude.

I’ve woke up once or twice (having zonked out the night before) wearing complex underwear (usually after one too many drinks and too much fooling about in the dark), and it leaves a scar, trust me.

However, there’s been plenty of times when I’ve slipped into something really smooth and soft and sexy - a gorgeous little nightie or a babydoll, and it’s been a lovely sl33p between the sheets, and, what’s more - your boobs don’t get punished (unless you specifically requested them to be punished, that is). 

[Hiram]

(and a little blue garter), which I took a long time to source, and I also got it altered slightly.

Was that because of it being blue?

One was from La Senza and had a front-fastening moulded cup bra (which wasn’t my size or style), and was made of couple-type semi-transparent black material.

Sounds interesting.

but is actually more “bedroom” wear (if you catch my drift).

Yep.

But, I once had a black marabou babydoll that my partner got me (Google it) - and all I can say is that it felt sooooo good on. I felt sooo sexy wearing it, and often sl33p wearing it. It’s long gone though.

That does look nice (just looked it up).

As for basques (that Pour Moi one is a good example, if a tad uncomfortable looking) - there was a time I enjoyed wearing them (for fun - they’re not exactly comfort-wear), but I always preferred a bodyshaper.

The comfortableness (or lack of) of these is the thing that always stands out to me.  I love the look and how it shapes a woman's body, but got to be only wearable for a short time.

Unfortunately, all of these items are not really big-boob friendly or terribly comfortable - they’re mostly a visual treat for someone else and largely designed to get the blood pumping. 😘

I just love the look, I can't say this sort of stuff really gets me going, I feel it is more the esthetic. But not only the look, but the feel of these clothes, just so tactile.  The sexy part is how it makes a woman feel, that is the bit that turns me on.

I'm sure you look absolutely fantastic when you dress in lingerie.

[Hiram]

If you’re big-boobed, it’s really not a great idea sl33ping in a bra or anything with complex straps/underwires and tight bands.

I can imagine.  Most people move about when they sl33p, and you body needs to be free to move.

It’s better to go braless with either a slip or a pyjama top, or tshirt. Or - just go nude.

Most women I know go for the long t-shirts of PJ's.  I don't know many women who sl33p nude for some reason. I prefer it, apart from going to the loo in the night when you find out how cold the bathroom is!

I’ve woke up once or twice (having zonked out the night before) wearing complex underwear (usually after one too many drinks and too much fooling about in the dark), and it leaves a scar, trust me.

I think we've all been there to be honest.

what’s more - your boobs don’t get punished (unless you specifically requested them to be punished, that is).

I would never punish boobs...

[Margaret]

(and a little blue garter), which I took a long time to source, and I also got it altered slightly.

Was that because of it being blue?

One was from La Senza and had a front-fastening moulded cup bra (which wasn’t my size or style), and was made of couple-type semi-transparent black material.

Sounds interesting.

but is actually more “bedroom” wear (if you catch my drift).

Yep.

But, I once had a black marabou babydoll that my partner got me (Google it) - and all I can say is that it felt sooooo good on. I felt sooo sexy wearing it, and often sl33p wearing it. It’s long gone though.

That does look nice (just looked it up).

As for basques (that Pour Moi one is a good example, if a tad uncomfortable looking) - there was a time I enjoyed wearing them (for fun - they’re not exactly comfort-wear), but I always preferred a bodyshaper.

The comfortableness (or lack of) of these is the thing that always stands out to me.  I love the look and how it shapes a woman's body, but got to be only wearable for a short time.

Unfortunately, all of these items are not really big-boob friendly or terribly comfortable - they’re mostly a visual treat for someone else and largely designed to get the blood pumping. 😘

I just love the look, I can't say this sort of stuff really gets me going, I feel it is more the esthetic. But not only the look, but the feel of these clothes, just so tactile.  The sexy part is how it makes a woman feel, that is the bit that turns me on.

I'm sure you look absolutely fantastic when you dress in lingerie.

Yes - it was a “something blue” garter. I still have it. The whole process of getting ready for wedding day is still fresh in my mind. It’s an absolutely magical experience; hair and makeup, putting on all the lingerie, getting into the shoes and dress - my dress was white, ballgown type and strapless/off-the-shoulder. It closet of crossed over my boobs at the front - which is why I needed the corset-style basque. I had to find one with ample enough cups, and then have the shoulder straps removed and an inch added to the side lining (I can’t remember the brand, I think it was either Charnos or Fabtasie). Then, getting picked up in the cars, being given away, the ceremony, the meal, **94** and dancing - and then afterwards in the hotel 😘

I don’t think I’ll ever forget the look on my then fiancé’s face when he saw me arrive. It’s an incredible feeling just to be admired and desired like that. And his dislocated jaw when the dress came off later. 😘

I’ll try and find a rough example of what my lingerie and dress looked like. But it’s been a while (I’m not keen to post photos of my actual dress, for obvious reasons).

[Margaret]

This is almost exactly like the basque/corset i had. And pretty much what my dress looked like.

I was slightly bigger in the boobs than these two lovely women though.

[solvegas]

This is almost exactly like the basque/corset i had. And pretty much what my dress looked like.

I was slightly bigger in the boobs than these two lovely women though.

Wow, you must be a true beauty queen. 

[Margaret]

This is almost exactly like the basque/corset i had. And pretty much what my dress looked like.

I was slightly bigger in the boobs than these two lovely women though.

Wow, you must be a true beauty queen. 

Well, I don’t know about that - but I certainly felt like one.

[Hiram]

my dress was white, ballgown type and strapless/off-the-shoulder. It closet of crossed over my boobs at the front - which is why I needed the corset-style basque. I had to find one with ample enough cups, and then have the shoulder straps removed and an inch added to the side lining

My first thought when seeing the style was how your boobs would fit.  I guess with a dress which is essentially fitted, you can make all the modifications you need.

I don’t think I’ll ever forget the look on my then fiancé’s face when he saw me arrive. It’s an incredible feeling just to be admired and desired like that. And his dislocated jaw when the dress came off later. 😘

You're getting me going Margaret!  I do love the anticipation and reveal.  Something about how my imagination of a woman's body; and then seeing it in reality ... is soo magical.

[Hiram]

This is almost exactly like the basque/corset i had. And pretty much what my dress looked like.

Both look amazing.

[Margaret]

This is almost exactly like the basque/corset i had. And pretty much what my dress looked like.

Both look amazing.

It was a magical experience. I still have my dress, but not the lingerie.

[Margaret]

my dress was white, ballgown type and strapless/off-the-shoulder. It closet of crossed over my boobs at the front - which is why I needed the corset-style basque. I had to find one with ample enough cups, and then have the shoulder straps removed and an inch added to the side lining

My first thought when seeing the style was how your boobs would fit.  I guess with a dress which is essentially fitted, you can make all the modifications you need.

I don’t think I’ll ever forget the look on my then fiancé’s face when he saw me arrive. It’s an incredible feeling just to be admired and desired like that. And his dislocated jaw when the dress came off later. 😘

You're getting me going Margaret!  I do love the anticipation and reveal.  Something about how my imagination of a woman's body; and then seeing it in reality ... is soo magical.

Getting the lingerie adjusted helped. I wasn’t as big in the boobs as I am now (I was wearing the wrong bra size for a long time, as most women do). I would have been something like a 32E at the time, but I think the size on the basque was a 34DD - it was a bit tight under the arms. I took it to an alterers and they removed the shoulder straps and added some material to the side panels, so that I could move in it, and, so that my boobs stayed in place. Once the dress was fitted/altered and on, my boobs didn’t move - and I was keen to avoid cleavage. The dress also has multiple layers under it to give the overall look of volume - they’re made of voile - and I had a little voile headdress and tiara, which I took off after the ceremony.