pussy, idiot. 
If you're responding to me ....No , that is not what I'm looking for !! .... You are alluding to the crass sexualized connotation.
* I want to know if any of you know the proper actual definition !?
Look it up on Wiktionary. Both those words are actually the definition of the word 'twat'. 
I don't need to look at 'wiktionary'....I know what the correct definition is ! My question was 'Do any of you know ?' ...... I'm still waiting.... 
I respectfully suggest that you two carry out your debate over PM, instead of here. And/or start a new "guess the correct definition" game in a different thread.
To get back to word association, the last entry was the name of an obscure comic book villain,
Mr. Mind.