[gmantwo]

Well, if it leads to more pics and vids, I'm all for it then. 

Good luck!

[PinkLisa]

Well, if it leads to more pics and vids, I'm all for it then. 

Good luck!

Thank you sweetie.

[ValNTx]

Just speaking from experience.  Like I said, I've had some busty friends (noticeably overweight or not facially attractive) and they didn't receive any "extra" attention.  Whereas fairly fit/attractive busty women turn heads every where they go.  It's that simple.

Interesting. I think you are the first woman to agree to this. Can you elaborate?

[PinkLisa]

Just speaking from experience.  Like I said, I've had some busty friends (noticeably overweight or not facially attractive) and they didn't receive any "extra" attention.  Whereas fairly fit/attractive busty women turn heads every where they go.  It's that simple.

I notice the same thing too. I think it is just what people notice are the more attractive busty women over the ones that have other things going on looks wise.

[BarneyFife]

Agreed ValNTx and Pink Lisa on your last two post. If your attractive and big busted in this society it's an unbeatable combination to most men.It would be like a tall Tom Cruise who is wealthy if you had to compare it for women I guess. Now fortuantely it takes more than a body for most people to have a relationship. I mean if the woman has a bad attitude and thiks she is gods gift to men that will turn off men.

In other societies if a woman is larger than normal she could be treated like a queen. I thought it was in the middle east but somewhere women are adored for their extra large size. I think living in the United States we are so media conscious that it becomes second nature. Let me mention that show on Discover about attractiveness even little babies could tell the difference on attractive vs unattractive facial wise so I think it could be hard wired at least with a person's face. Add the fact that the hip to chest ratio on the show clearly showed men prefer a certain build and women also do with men. It isn't just men that look for a ratio of hip to chest or shoulders.The smaller the waist and broader the shoulders women seemed to prefer. Based on facial features and hip/bust ratio an attractive big busted women is a difficult combination to beat on appearance which is why they have alot of men suitors.

[PinkLisa]

Agreed ValNTx and Pink Lisa on your last two post. If your attractive and big busted in this society it's an unbeatable combination to most men.It would be like a tall Tom Cruise who is wealthy if you had to compare it for women I guess. Now fortuantely it takes more than a body for most people to have a relationship. I mean if the woman has a bad attitude and thiks she is gods gift to men that will turn off men.

In other societies if a woman is larger than normal she could be treated like a queen. I thought it was in the middle east but somewhere women are adored for their extra large size. I think living in the United States we are so media conscious that it becomes second nature. Let me mention that show on Discover about attractiveness even little babies could tell the difference on attractive vs unattractive facial wise so I think it could be hard wired at least with a person's face. Add the fact that the hip to chest ratio on the show clearly showed men prefer a certain build and women also do with men. It isn't just men that look for a ratio of hip to chest or shoulders.The smaller the waist and broader the shoulders women seemed to prefer. Based on facial features and hip/bust ratio an attractive big busted women is a difficult combination to beat on appearance which is why they have alot of men suitors.

It also depends on what the person finds attractive. I would think it is samoan people who like bigger people. men like the hour glass body type most. I never did go for a certain body type when it comes to men. What I like is the face. The rest is an extra bonus.

[MasterDragonfly]

It also depends on what the person finds attractive. I would think it is samoan people who like bigger people. men like the hour glass body type most. I never did go for a certain body type when it comes to men. What I like is the face. The rest is an extra bonus.

Agreed.  Generalizations tend to approximate, but aren't universal.

Being a man, I should hypothetically be attracted to long, luxuriant hair on a woman.  And while I do find that style of hair interesting, I find short pixie hairstyles (and similar) on women to be far more attractive.  And I know I'm in the minority on that one.

And I know this will sound weird, but some women have very interesting/attractive noses.  I'm not talking about the "perfect nosejob" nose, either.  I haven't quite quantified it (meaning, I haven't spent a lot of time pondering this), but I think a certain roundness to the tip and/or to the alar sidewall, and those occasions when the lower lateral cartilages leave a 'notch' at the tip, those are some examples that I like.  (I've seen surgeries on TV where women get the gap between the lower lateral cartilages closed up.)

(I was curious about the terminology just now, so for the curious:  http://www.revisionrhinoplasty.com/anatomy.html )

[PinkLisa]

Agreed.  Generalizations tend to approximate, but aren't universal.

Being a man, I should hypothetically be attracted to long, luxuriant hair on a woman.  And while I do find that style of hair interesting, I find short pixie hairstyles (and similar) on women to be far more attractive.  And I know I'm in the minority on that one.

And I know this will sound weird, but some women have very interesting/attractive noses.  I'm not talking about the "perfect nosejob" nose, either.  I haven't quite quantified it (meaning, I haven't spent a lot of time pondering this), but I think a certain roundness to the tip and/or to the alar sidewall, and those occasions when the lower lateral cartilages leave a 'notch' at the tip, those are some examples that I like.  (I've seen surgeries on TV where women get the gap between the lower lateral cartilages closed up.)

(I was curious about the terminology just now, so for the curious:  http://www.revisionrhinoplasty.com/anatomy.html )

I love eyes and smiles and I love nose's much in the same way that you do. I also like different face shapes. I like when someone has their own look to them. And that goes for both men and women. I like all hair lengths and most of the styles I have seen.

[Feral]

Just speaking from experience.  Like I said, I've had some busty friends (noticeably overweight or not facially attractive) and they didn't receive any "extra" attention.  Whereas fairly fit/attractive busty women turn heads every where they go.  It's that simple.

So what you are saying, extra attention from men = charmed. I don't think anyone here is doubting that attractive, fit women with bigger breasts get more attention. But are their lives truly enriched or improved because of it?

[BarneyFife]

Feral, I would say yes their lives are enriched because of their body. Remember way back when at the start of the thread I mentioned there are negatives and positives and given the choice of big breasts or not I think most attractive women would want them simply because not only are they different from other attractive females but has we know most men like big breasts.

Positives - stand out in a crowd,more opportunities with men which can lead to better choices of partners. Not all but the majority probably have higher self esteem because of the power they have with men.Better choice of partners leads to better quality of life since usually men with money will pursue these women.

Negatives - jealous women who may not be very friendly towards them, health issues(back),self esteem (minority),can't find the right clothes,bad reputation. A sense of entitlement since attractive voluptous women are used to having their own way and can get big headed over their features certainly a turnoff for men.

Forutunately, we live in a world where personality,interests and not all men want the same type of woman.

 

[PinkLisa]

So what you are saying, extra attention from men = charmed. I don't think anyone here is doubting that attractive, fit women with bigger breasts get more attention. But are their lives truly enriched or improved because of it?

I do not have more then women who have average sized breasts except for bigger breasts. If anything they have more then I had in terms of friendships and relationships. Not very many guys ever asked me out or tried to be friends with me. Guys either wanted sex or to see me naked. I did not give them either and that was the end of that. And not many women wanted me as their friend. But the few friends I did have had average to small breasts had boyfriends and they never had to go through that. I know because I asked them If guys asked to see them naked or for sex. So I think some guys Just see busty women as sexual objects most of the time, well the ones who bothered me did. LoL

So the only thing I really got out of being super busty and fit is knowing the true nature of some people and what they really think.

For me it was going from no one looking at me and picking on me because I would cover my body up and was a nerd.
To dressing in a more attractive way and as a result of that having guys just want me for sex and nothing else. So what I have learned is busty fit women are seen as being more sexually attractive Vs. women with smaller breasts or over weight women.

The only thing one can do is just live their life the way they want. I do not let things like this get to me any more.

I see people as people and try to always respect people no matter what they look like. Fit or not. busty or not.

Enriched or Improved my life? No. Not really. It made me feel more alone and excluded from things and people when I was younger. Not so much any more.

[PinkLisa]

Feral, I would say yes their lives are enriched because of their body. Remember way back when at the start of the thread I mentioned there are negatives and positives and given the choice of big breasts or not I think most attractive women would want them simply because not only are they different from other attractive females but has we know most men like big breasts.

Positives - stand out in a crowd,more opportunities with men which can lead to better choices of partners. Not all but the majority probably have higher self esteem because of the power they have with men.Better choice of partners leads to better quality of life since usually men with money will pursue these women.

Negatives - jealous women who may not be very friendly towards them, health issues(back),self esteem (minority),can't find the right clothes,bad reputation. A sense of entitlement since attractive voluptous women are used to having their own way and can get big headed over their features certainly a turnoff for men.

Forutunately, we live in a world where personality,interests and not all men want the same type of woman.

 

Yes. At first I did not like being busty. I learned that as time went by that it makes me different, different in a good way.

Positives for me - Stand out in a crowd, people talk to me at random, Women seem to be very talkative towards me in a good way, They always smile and ask me things about my self, I make my own clothing because at first I could never find anything that could fit me.

Negatives for me - Less opportunities with men because they tend to go for less busty women which leads to not a lot of choices of partners, bad reputation for no reason but for being busty, stalkers, guys only wanting sex or to see me naked.

 
We might live in a time where personality and interests over rule what a person looks like. Not all men want the same type of woman. But I did not know any who wanted to over like my body type and date me till I went on the internet. Before it was date her? Then would get a laugh and yeah right, not in a million years and then saying they like women who have normal sized breasts or having crazy stalkers who are just nuts after me.

But online you can chat with people who like how your body looks and find sites like this to talk with people who are like minded.

[MrsPacman1]

So what you are saying, extra attention from men = charmed. I don't think anyone here is doubting that attractive, fit women with bigger breasts get more attention. But are their lives truly enriched or improved because of it?

And....Feral beat me to it. 

After thinking through some of this conversation, and applying my RL experiences - I am going to go out on a limb here and share. IMO, I would have to say that the naturally large busted women I have known would not agree with leading a charmed life. They would flat out refute it. Here you have the women who don't necessarily like the attention, who tend to have the lower self esteem, the back and or posture issues, and have grown up with the negative stereotyping that plagues this topic.

Conversely, those who have enhanced their bust lines to compete with their buxom sisters may agree that there is a certain amount of benefits that come along with it. The majority of the ones I know had their surgery specifically for those benefits.

From where I'm standing (and not seeing the ground on which I stand) we have two very different set of perspectives. Personally, I am just comparing breasts. Faces, weight, height, eye color, and any other characteristic imaginable are not part of the overall "attractiveness" we're discussing here. Those types of preferences are interchangeable with each individual's taste. What I think is pretty isn't something everyone may agree with, and vice versa. I am also not comparing an everyday average woman with someone who works in the sex industry. 

As a side note: There are examples in just about every culture (with the exception of modern day America and parts of Europe) where larger women are considered the fairest of them all. Even today.

[Feral]

Feral, I would say yes their lives are enriched because of their body. Remember way back when at the start of the thread I mentioned there are negatives and positives and given the choice of big breasts or not I think most attractive women would want them simply because not only are they different from other attractive females but has we know most men like big breasts.

Positives - stand out in a crowd,more opportunities with men which can lead to better choices of partners. Not all but the majority probably have higher self esteem because of the power they have with men.Better choice of partners leads to better quality of life since usually men with money will pursue these women.

So how do they help the happily married woman who isn't looking for a man? What part of the charm is there for them? I still am not convinced the positives named in this thread constitute "being charmed."

I can still see how a woman with average breasts, but beautiful features, long legs and shapely hips could also get more attention, which "may lead to a batter choice in partners." All I think we have proven here is that pretty women get more attention, and not necessarily having big breasts improves that - it just depends on the woman, her attributes, and who is looking at her.

Forutunately, we live in a world where personality,interests and not all men want the same type of woman.

Indeed.

[Feral]

And....Feral beat me to it. 

 

Conversely, those who have enhanced their bust lines to compete with their buxom sisters may agree that there is a certain amount of benefits that come along with it. The majority of the ones I know had their surgery specifically for those benefits.

I think it has a lot to do with them getting to choose the when, the where and the how much. Yeah, I know you don't exactly know how a boob job will turn out, but you have some idea and you get to choose the type of implant and the volume. Most women with big boobs got them early in puberty and middle school and high school is a tough place to be when you stand out from the crowd.