[BarneyFife]

So how do they help the happily married woman who isn't looking for a man? What part of the charm is there for them? I still am not convinced the positives named in this thread constitute "being charmed."

I can still see how a woman with average breasts, but beautiful features, long legs and shapely hips could also get more attention, which "may lead to a batter choice in partners." All I think we have proven here is that pretty women get more attention, and not necessarily having big breasts improves that - it just depends on the woman, her attributes, and who is looking at her.

Indeed.

Not to beat a deadhorse but if Pam Anderson never got breast implants she would ne just like every other pretty girl and her career wouldn't have taken off. It's really odd Hollywood a woman like Jessica Alba,Eva Longoria they have done pretty well yet I think because their latino or at least dark features. My computer is acting up .I'll continue on the next post.     

[Feral]

Not to beat a deadhorse but if Pam Anderson never got breast implants she would ne just like every other pretty girl and her career wouldn't have taken off. It's really odd Hollywood a woman like Jessica Alba,Eva Longoria they have done pretty well yet I think because their latino or at least dark features. My computer is acting up .I'll continue on the next post.      

Well, I feel like I've already addressed that. Hollywood will deem Pam Anderson only capable of bimbo roles. She won't ever land a role that Jessica Alba or Eva Longoria gets. So okay, if you are lucky - you will have a fifteen minute career like Pam Anderson or Jenny McCarthy, but both of those are already attractive women and rare exceptions I believe. There are probably a million other blond starlets with fake boobs in Hollywood trying to make it and will be lucky if they get in one music video or beer ad. Exploitation seems to be the only career choice for the "charmed" woman's life in any of your scenarios.

Among Hollywood A-listers like Sandra Bullock, Jennifer Anniston, or Reese Witherspoon - I believe all of them would never have had the careers they have now if they had chosen to get big implants upon their arrival in Hollywood.

[BarneyFife]

OK I'm back. Other women have had dark features but I think its the role they play in the TV show or movie and they have to be extremely beautiful to make it to where their at.Before Alba made it in the movies she was on the show Dark Angel which I really enjoyed not only watching her but just liked the show. I couldn't figure why she wasn't being talked about more in the media then she did that movie with Bruce Willias and everything changed.

I've already mentioned this but there are many teenagers wanting bigger boobs why is that? Even very pretty girls want them thus they want to be different than the other pretty teenagers.

[BarneyFife]

Very true Feral these big boobed stars won't be taken seriously for major roles thus their the victim of their own bodies.

[Feral]

I've already mentioned this but there are many teenagers wanting bigger boobs why is that? Even very pretty girls want them thus they want to be different than the other pretty teenagers.

Maybe they wish for Ds or DDs when all their friends have Bs and Cs. But I doubt any of them wishes for D cups when they are still in middle school. A lot of women who have big boobs develop waaay early, before they are mentally able to cope with the wrong kind of attention.

[BarneyFife]

Pink Lisa thanks for sharing your thoughts about the charmed life issue. You certainly have a point about men and they sometimes only see women has bodies. Let me also say not all men are like this.There are some decent guys out there who might be attracted to the body but the mind as well. There are plenty of GQ guys out there just wanting to add to the notches on their belt those are the ones you probably meet. Then there are the nice guys who get walked on or just don't go after the attractive females because they feel they have no chance. This subject certainly brings up charmed life in many different aspects not only related to big busts but all the other categories people fall into.

[PinkLisa]

Not to beat a deadhorse but if Pam Anderson never got breast implants she would ne just like every other pretty girl and her career wouldn't have taken off. It's really odd Hollywood a woman like Jessica Alba,Eva Longoria they have done pretty well yet I think because their latino or at least dark features. My computer is acting up .I'll continue on the next post.     

I agree. Pam would have been just another pretty girl. But she got implants and then more people noticed her.

[MrsPacman1]

I think it has a lot to do with them getting to choose the when, the where and the how much. Yeah, I know you don't exactly know how a boob job will turn out, but you have some idea and you get to choose the type of implant and the volume. Most women with big boobs got them early in puberty and middle school and high school is a tough place to be when you stand out from the crowd.

I get what you're saying, and I agree. I was referring to those women attracting the "attention" they think their larger busted sisters receive, and wanting that for themselves.

I've already mentioned this but there are many teenagers wanting bigger boobs why is that? Even very pretty girls want them thus they want to be different than the other pretty teenagers.

There are just as many women who want breast reductions. I don't, but I hear about it all the time.

Maybe they wish for Ds or DDs when all their friends have Bs and Cs. But I doubt any of them wishes for D cups when they are still in middle school. A lot of women who have big boobs develop waaay early, before they are mentally able to cope with the wrong kind of attention.

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OK I'm back. Other women have had dark features but I think its the role they play in the TV show or movie and they have to be extremely beautiful to make it to where their at.Before Alba made it in the movies she was on the show Dark Angel which I really enjoyed not only watching her but just liked the show. I couldn't figure why she wasn't being talked about more in the media then she did that movie with Bruce Willias and everything changed.

Completely unrelated to the topic at hand, however, I think it was the type of show it was. I loved the first season myself!  Michael Weatherly was also in the show and didn't receive a tremendous amount of success until NCIS. TV shows flop for various reasons, but it's not usually because of the actors. The only exception I can think of this second would be the person you are insisting is a wildly popular Hollywood starlet. You guessed it...Pam Anderson!

For further reference: A Charmed Life

Meaning -A life of guaranteed good fortune or invulnerability, by virtue of a charm or spell.

Origin - From Shakespeare's Macbeth, 1605. 

Since no one can really be guaranteed these things, I'm thinking it really doesn't exist. For anyone. 

Mrs*the grass is always greener in many a different eyes*Pacman

[PinkLisa]

Pink Lisa thanks for sharing your thoughts about the charmed life issue. You certainly have a point about men and they sometimes only see women has bodies. Let me also say not all men are like this.There are some decent guys out there who might be attracted to the body but the mind as well. There are plenty of GQ guys out there just wanting to add to the notches on their belt those are the ones you probably meet. Then there are the nice guys who get walked on or just don't go after the attractive females because they feel they have no chance. This subject certainly brings up charmed life in many different aspects not only related to big busts but all the other categories people fall into.

Not so much my thoughts. These are life experiences that happened to me. Well I did not say all men are like that. I said the ones who spoke to me in real life are like that. No nice decent guys ever spoke to me when interested in dating someone. Only the jerks who think saying sexual things to women is funny, wanting sexy and seeing someone nude.

Even when a single nice guy would say they are looking for a women to date who has all the same interests never asked me out. At the time I was single and I would say hello I am single and like the same things as you. They would laugh and say they are looking for someone who is more of an average build. Not someone that people would notice or look at or would talk about. Some guys do not like people looking at the women they are with.
 
They would date every other body type. Thin or even over weight, but not thin and busty like me. They would say you are not my type. After a while that can make someone have low self esteem. Guys on line would ask why are you single. I would laugh and tell them yeah I grew up a nerd and wore baggy clothing to hide my breasts. Now that I dress to show off my body No one nice or normal seems to be interested in me. Rather the ones I spoke to did not.

So the ones who did that did talk to me wore just in to sex. and the guys who wore nice wore more in to smaller breasts. Hey nothing wrong with knowing what you like.

Nothing can change them and I never would try. I just had to go and find someone who was able to like me mind body and spirit. It's not easy to find.

So nothing charmed about it. More of a hardship when it comes to a love life.

I love being busty because I like how it looks. I am just lucky to have been born with the right DNA for it.

[PinkLisa]

For further reference: A Charmed Life

Meaning -A life of guaranteed good fortune or invulnerability, by virtue of a charm or spell.

Origin - From Shakespeare's Macbeth, 1605. 

Since no one can really be guaranteed these things, I'm thinking it really doesn't exist. For anyone. 

Mrs*the grass is always greener in many a different eyes*Pacman

I agree! I could not have said it better my self.

[Feral]

A lot of guys are intimidated by big boobs because they are afraid of what others will think:

"Well we know what he sees in her..."

or

"She's just a dumb bimbo with big (fake) boobs." (Whether they are fake or natural)

or his buddies will say..

"Ugh, you like that? What is wrong with you?"

I think its the types who are just looking to hit it and quit it are more brave and more likely to approach a very busty woman under any circumstances.

[Feral]

I get what you're saying, and I agree. I was referring to those women attracting the "attention" they think their larger busted sisters receive, and wanting that for themselves.

Yes, I agree. Like you said, the grass is always greener. People like that are only looking at what they perceive are positive reasons for having more attention given to their boobs.

And on the flip side of that I've known a few naturally busty women who are surrounded by "friends" who constantly tell they'd hate it if their boobs were that big, and always insist that their backs "have to hurt" or that guys "are only after one thing if they talk to them."

And I've even heard a few busty girls who will go one second complaining about backaches and too much wrong attention and clothes but the minute a guy walks by that they want attention from will immediately try to shove their boobs in his face to get his attention. And when they go to the club or the beach they most certainly show off their assets by wearing the most revealing tops.

 

[BarneyFife]

Pink Lisa, I guess we all have problems not just big busted women. Interesting to hear from a voluptous woman on her thoughts abut the subject. I'm sorry you had to go through such difficult times and I understand why you haven't had a charmed life. I guess for a woman you have to seperate the bad guys from the good guys and not so many good guys approach or want to get to know you.

The old adage just be the best you can be sounds over used but fits. Those who are blessed with great looks and body I think we all agree have their cake and eat it to for the most part.The rest of us just have make the best of it and find happiness. 

[pedonbio]

How about big boobs and pixy dust?

[MrsPacman1]

or his buddies will say..
"Ugh, you like that? What is wrong with you?"

I've heard this one many times, myself. Pacman has never hidden his love of huge boobs with anyone. We have yet to find someone in our circle of friends (BEA members aside) who will agree. Some have respected it, others can be more accepting. There's never been a, "hell yeah, ME TOO". Yet.

And on the flip side of that I've known a few naturally busty women who are surrounded by "friends" who constantly tell they'd hate it if their boobs were that big, and always insist that their backs "have to hurt" or that guys "are only after one thing if they talk to them."

And I've even heard a few busty girls who will go one second complaining about backaches and too much wrong attention and clothes but the minute a guy walks by that they want attention from will immediately try to shove their boobs in his face to get his attention. And when they go to the club or the beach they most certainly show off their assets by wearing the most revealing tops.

 

I know, I know...they are out there. Some of them have just taken a "If you can't beat 'em join 'em" attitude and play into the stereotypical expectations. It's sad...but those women are no different than the men who frequent strip clubs to whoop and holler at the busty, implanted, strippers they would never have any intentions of dating. 

Interesting to hear from a voluptous woman on her thoughts abut the subject.

Come on, really...?! Seriously...?! If I'm not mistaken here, you have heard from several. No offense to Pink Lisa - the BEA princesses (non models) are a pretty rare breed of woman, and will usually stick together as a whole. That being said, I'm happy someone made a few valid points for you.

BTW: Pink Lisa's experiences are generally the rule and not the exception. I have a few stories similar to hers, myself. I feel your pain, girl!!

Mrs*Pac said he had no idea I was busty when we met*Pacman