[RandomX]

Ah Pacman. You made me lol. You win this thread. Everyone go home, show's over.

[ValNTx]

Easy answer...Both will get attention because they are both smokin hot, but the one with DDD's will likely get more remarks/attention.  JMHO.  A better test might be Janet Reno with DDD's vs. Jessica Alba with C cups.  Jessica wins hands down supporting my point that bigger breasts make a difference, but the overall package is more important (in general...of course I realize there are exceptions).

Please understand, I'm not trying to pick on you or your comments, but again - no one is arguing this. Why do you have to take it such extremes? Flat chested versus large breasts? Of course large breasts win. But as said before, the big breasted women who get reductions don't get them completely removed - they wish for average breasts. So to redo your experiment, look back a few comments when we submitted the question of "What if two Jessica Alba-esque went to the same party, one has Jessica Alba's breasts one has Denise Milani's breasts or Rachel Aladna's breasts or Anorei Collins' breasts - which one gets the most attention?"

[zeo]

But when I would notice a guy looking at me I would think I wonder if he is nice and what he is about.

Never had that happen. ever. Maybe I'm too ugly or something

But what I was talking about is talking to someone you think is nice and they then say they are only interested in having sex or seeing me naked. Decent guys do not do that or say things like that. They get to know the person and want a relationship with the women they have sex with. and they do not make that the only thing they want.

To me a decent guy will notice the body and what ever else they like about a women, say nice things about the women and her looks. but they would want to be with her in a relationship. Not some skeevy random sex one night or to see her naked for a few minutes and that is all. That is freaking odd.

Of course. But those "skeevy" guys probably thoroughly ruin things for decent guys. So many times the interpretation of a look or a peak puts the guy in the pervert category without ever saying a single thing that was remotely sexual because of those that act badly. It's probably just bad luck on my part but IME the only women who have reacted positively have been flat chested.

[gmantwo]

Lisa, you're so cool and hot at the same time, one would think you've got everything going for you. Hard to believe that you can't meet a decent guy. Speaking for myself, when I was young and single, I was totally intimidated by cute, busty women like you. I'd talk to plain looking women because I wouldn't trip over my tongue every other sentence. Great looking women still intimidate me somewhat, but now I can at least act cool.

I'm guessing the "nice" guys you seek are too afraid to make the first move. Perhaps you need to take a chance and make the first move on a guy that seems like he is OK and see what happens.

[Q_BE]

I'm guessing the "nice" guys you seek are too afraid to make the first move. Perhaps you need to take a chance and make the first move on a guy that seems like he is OK and see what happens.

QUOTE OF THE YEAR! (I, too, am a "nice" guy who would die for a big-boobed woman to show interest.)

I've been waiting for my chance to get a word in edge-wise on this deep discussion thread. I've read the back-and-forth on the discussion like this: women with big boobs get more attention (positive/negative); women who are naturally busty tend to neglect the attention (view it as negative), while women who seek implanted breasts tend to seek out the attention (view it as positive).

Then, there's the issue of back pain, day-to-day experiences, normal tasks that may not quite be so normal any more (anybody busty women here still tie their shoes by leaning forward like you did as a youngling?), and of course, the oft-neglected situations you rarely encounter, but which present an almost-impossible predicament to you (can't think of any right off the top of my head, but I'm sure they exist).

As to back pain, what I have personally observed is that back pain varies widely across women of all cup sizes, and it mostly relates to the poor posture practiced by women today, and also, the improper bra-fitting of a vast majority of women, who you would think, being bra wearers, would notice this sort of thing. Nevertheless, they seem to feel almost as if their bra size is like a shoe size—permanently unchanging. This leads me to believe, after all, that women with big breasts should take note that they, more than other women, might be most well-served wearing a bra that FITS. Subsequently, I'd wager a bigger portion (pun intended) of the population of busty women do in fact wear a size that fits, when they can get it. It would make sense that they are attuned to the necessity of well-fitting garments because they particularly need their garments to fit well.

I wish I could bash these thoughts into the head of my busty acquaintance, who seems to lack these basic understandings about her own breasts, wearing ill-fitting bras, maintaining poor posture, and then complaining about back pain. It boggles my mind.

Q-"There, I said my piece"-BE

[100ProofBE]

Mrs Pac answered this question pretty thoroughly and distinctly on the first page so anything I add is purely flowery prose, but that's mostly why I'm here.  

While sweeping generalizations are clearly not going to cover the whole (and it's sad that I have to point that out), it's pretty safe to say for the vast majority of big-breasted women, simply having big breasts doesn't lead to them having a "charmed" life, defined however you want to define it. In most situations, it makes their life more difficult and not less. Certainly leaning over can get a woman the occasional free drink and more than one man has been lured by the charms of a proud pair (myself included), but that is vastly outweighed by ill-fitting clothing, neck and back pain, the derision and scorn of other, less-gifted women, the unwanted advances of single-minded men and the multitude of other daily annoyances and grievances that most naturally busty women deal with in their daily lives... and while some of that can certainly be chalked up to the "grass is greener" mentality, that in and of itself disproves the hypothesis... there's no connection between bustiness and happiness or a life of comfort.

And let's not mince words... I have nothing but love and respect for the lovely ladies who show up here to share their pictures and plug their websites, but being a stripper, porn star, or big-breasted model is not a charmed life. More often than not as we've learned, it's anything but.

[Ladon]

I think it can be summed up as "If one sees something as a positive, it will probably be so for them."

[PinkLisa]

Never had that happen. ever. Maybe I'm too ugly or something

Of course. But those "skeevy" guys probably thoroughly ruin things for decent guys. So many times the interpretation of a look or a peak puts the guy in the pervert category without ever saying a single thing that was remotely sexual because of those that act badly. It's probably just bad luck on my part but IME the only women who have reacted positively have been flat chested.

Not for me. Looking is normal. That pert does not make someone "Skeevy". What makes them that in my eyes is when they just go in to talking about having sex with me and seeing me naked with out even knowing me and breaking out the porn talk and porn mags right in front of me in public or in private. All without knowing me. The first thing that comes out of their mouth is I want to have sex with you or see you naked and saying they only like women with my body type and then showing me some naked women in a porn mag. Skeevy!

The nice decent guys do not talk to tend to talk to me. I have gone out of my way to say hello to them and they just look at me and say nothing.

Women talk to me all ages. I notice that older people like in their 60's and older talk to me just fine.

Guys 35 and younger after hearing them talk to other people I think based on that they are decent acting never talk to me.

They just look at me eyes wide open in shock.

The Skeevy guys just talk but they say all the wrong things. Well wrong to me because I am not in to what they want.

So skeevy guys ruin nothing for the decent nice guys. They just ruin things for them self's.

[PinkLisa]

Lisa, you're so cool and hot at the same time, one would think you've got everything going for you. Hard to believe that you can't meet a decent guy. Speaking for myself, when I was young and single, I was totally intimidated by cute, busty women like you. I'd talk to plain looking women because I wouldn't trip over my tongue every other sentence. Great looking women still intimidate me somewhat, but now I can at least act cool.

I'm guessing the "nice" guys you seek are too afraid to make the first move. Perhaps you need to take a chance and make the first move on a guy that seems like he is OK and see what happens.

Thank you hun. I'm no longer single. I am talking about when I was single how no one normal ever wanted to talk to me or date me. I had to go and find someone who was boob obsessed but who is also a regular nice guy to be with. Now that I am not single I still want friends of all kinds both women and men. But hard to do when the guys who seem to speak to me are looking for sex and no normal decent guys looking to make friends ever talk to me. I would talk to them first all the time. They would say either nothing or would say that I am not their type. That they like normal looking average looking women. not busty thin types.

So after being rejected all the time you tend to think something must be wrong with you looks wise for someone to say that. Nothing can change them and That is that. I hold no grudges.

[MasterDragonfly]

I think it can be summed up as "If one sees something as a positive, it will probably be so for them."

Saw something like that as a motivational poster somewhere (doc's office, perhaps?), which went something like this:

"If you think you can or think you can't, you're right."

Huh... just found out that that's a quote attributed to Henry Ford.  Interesting.

[bignatslover]

This comedy video by Dave Chappelle answers the question pretty well.  Would love to hear your thoughts!

 "It's a Wonderful Chest" sketch by Dave Chappelle

[gonZo]

Saw something like that as a motivational poster somewhere (doc's office, perhaps?), which went something like this:

"If you think you can or think you can't, you're right."

Huh... just found out that that's a quote attributed to Henry Ford.  Interesting.

Mr. Ford's quote can be nicely summed up with the phrase "exploding Pintos".  

[pedonbio]

"If you think you can or think you can't, you're right."

Huh... just found out that that's a quote attributed to Henry Ford.  Interesting.

Henry Ford was best with one-liners. Whenever he said more than one sentence, it was usually in praise of Adolf Hitler, or it was anti-semitic.

[PinkLisa]

This comedy video by Dave Chappelle answers the question pretty well.  Would love to hear your thoughts!

 "It's a Wonderful Chest" sketch by Dave Chappelle

Now that was funny. I never wanted mine gone or smaller. Just perkier. Only a simpleton jogs in the wrong type of bra.

[Q_BE]

This comedy video by Dave Chappelle answers the question pretty well.  Would love to hear your thoughts!

 "It's a Wonderful Chest" sketch by Dave Chappelle

I officially LOVE that video! It's quite silly, of course, but damn if it doesn't at least show the silly side of big boobs!

To the busty ladies here: does this video make you think that maybe your boobs are important in other peoples' lives? You never know who you're affecting or how, and I think it would be intriguing to ask around and see what other people really think about your bingo-bongos.

Q-"Philosophy suits me"-BE