Hello everybody,
Now the dust has lay down in this thread I would like to point out, clarify and suggest something’s in here.
There is an specific user on this forum which is acting like “the Good Samaritan” which is for me the 100% main cause to come in fights. He just acts as an Good Samaritan now and does constantly pointing to others and accuse them of making troubles. Or simply say those always make or cause troubles.
I dare him or anybody who likes to to just find one mean or very negative post from me on this forum before 24 June of 2022. That was the start when things ran out of hand with this guy. And don’t forget to also check his posting history and then make conclusions over how somebody acting or behaving. I will help you a little bit https://forum.bearchive.com/index.php?topic=580674.msg10510361#msg10510361 and very recent calling out plastic surgeons for liars in the Jessy Bunny thread. Just a few examples.
Am I proud of the fights with this guy?, the answer is simply no I ain’t and it’s also nothing like the person I am. Check my posting history and you will simply find out.
I think we have seen in this thread a pretty good example of how quickly things are being solved and got quiet again when the owner of the thread comes in herself to clarify things. Foxy did that very well on a very decent nice and polite way, kudos to her for that.
This is a prove that “no information” is always leading to “des or misinformation” and always leads to fights between people who think different. When information is given things will settle down quick and easily.
Are fights on a forum like this always to blame on his or her users/subscribers? I think the answer is no, there is also a responsibility for the model. When you start a thread on here as an amateur or Model to make yourself known or to promote yourself to jumpstart a career. In my opinion the model needs to login and say something on a regular basis. Daily, weekly or monthly it’s not up to me to decide, but monthly would be nice I think. And for those who earn money with it a very good opportunity to point where to find new content or to promote it. This is how the world works if you want to sell things you need to advertise or make commercials.
If the model doesn’t want to contribute anymore in the thread or doesn’t like atmosphere in the thread or forum. Please ask the moderator in here to freeze or delete the thread. When you don’t make use of it it has no need at all and there can’t be fights anymore also in my opinion.
This message is ment for the good ladies and gentlemen, no new troubles please…
Regards Paddy
I have been trying to maintain some distance from this thread since I made my statements the other day in the hopes of calming things down, but certain assumptions made in this post do require a response.
First off, I didn't start this thread, nor am I responsible for monitoring the conversation on here. That is the responsibility of the forum moderators. Saying a model "should" check in and communicate on here on some kind of regular basis shows a lack of understanding of what our lives are really like. As most people I think are aware, I handle all my platforms personally rather than hiring some agency to pretend to be me, and I feel I owe my fans on OF, Loyal Fans, Patreon, etc. the chance to communicate with the REAL me rather than some paid impostor. With that in mind, please consider that I receive literally HUNDREDS of messages per day, and you can ask anyone who has subscribed to any of my sites, I always respond to them, usually several times per day. Unfortunately, that doesn't leave me with a lot of time to keep up with things regularly on here, and I'm pretty sure the same is true for other models.