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ayrton

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Newbie to escorts
« on: July 12, 2020, 08:25:18 AM »
I've never used an escort service before but I'm thinking about it.    Any advice on making sure things are legit.    I'm in the Chicago area so if anyone knows of an escort with big  natural tits in the area I appreciate a recommendation. 

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ayrton

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Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #1 on: July 13, 2020, 10:00:14 AM »
I should point out that I'm not thinking about doing this until the pandemic is over.   Just looking for advice.  I'm getting so old that the prospect of finding a young girl with big tits that wants to have sex with an old man are getting unrealistic. 

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rtpoe

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Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #2 on: July 13, 2020, 06:04:57 PM »
Look on legit websites.

https://www.slixa.com/

Be prepared to spend $$$$$$$.

Treat the ENTIRE "encounter" as if you're going on a date - Polite, civil, CLEAN AND NEAT, etc. - because that's REALLY what you're doing.
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Among the blossoms, under dewy skies,
With golden bells, and wreaths, and posies,
With bees’ love-tokens, butterflies’ good-byes,
We welcome May and say good-bye to roses.

-  Christina Rosetti, "May Morning"

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ayrton

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Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #3 on: July 14, 2020, 09:01:58 AM »
Thanks.   Needed someplace to start.

Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #4 on: September 15, 2020, 11:55:55 AM »
Nice thread. im also a newbie.

Is the sex guaranteed, or do you have to convince them? or what?

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rtpoe

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Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #5 on: September 15, 2020, 09:37:50 PM »
Nice thread. im also a newbie.

Is the sex guaranteed, or do you have to convince them? or what?

It's assumed. Expect at least a hand job. But keep in mind - they have the right to refuse if you're an unsanitary a-hole (at least I'd refuse).

Again, treat it as a real date - where, instead of getting a second date as a reward for doing it right, she'll put out.
rtpoe

Among the blossoms, under dewy skies,
With golden bells, and wreaths, and posies,
With bees’ love-tokens, butterflies’ good-byes,
We welcome May and say good-bye to roses.

-  Christina Rosetti, "May Morning"

Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #6 on: September 19, 2020, 02:01:03 PM »
Lots of busty babes in Chicago. I think tyra tinley is in the area and Paris G stops by from time to time.

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Robin_K2

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Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #7 on: October 28, 2020, 04:19:34 PM »
Nice thread. im also a newbie.

Is the sex guaranteed, or do you have to convince them? or what?

In fact, don't bring up sex at all. At all. And don't get your wallet and start counting out 20s. Put it in an envelope and lay it on a counter or whatever.

She will fear you have a badge. She will fear entrapment. (And frankly, so should you. That's why some services require identity checks. and so on.) So yes, treat it like a date. There used to be a review board that offered tips and news for "hobbyists." There are lots of pitfalls, such as an upcharge, substitutes, fakes. It's definitely YMMV and buyer beware.

I dipped my toes in that water twice, and quickly decided that the cost would keep me in beer and tips at my regular strip club for, oh . . . a year?

Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #8 on: November 04, 2020, 11:11:07 PM »
Nice thread. im also a newbie.

Is the sex guaranteed, or do you have to convince them? or what?

In fact, don't bring up sex at all. At all. And don't get your wallet and start counting out 20s. Put it in an envelope and lay it on a counter or whatever.

She will fear you have a badge. She will fear entrapment. (And frankly, so should you. That's why some services require identity checks. and so on.) So yes, treat it like a date. There used to be a review board that offered tips and news for "hobbyists." There are lots of pitfalls, such as an upcharge, substitutes, fakes. It's definitely YMMV and buyer beware.

I dipped my toes in that water twice, and quickly decided that the cost would keep me in beer and tips at my regular strip club for, oh . . . a year?

thanks, really good point. as well, lots of countries have legal brothels anyway.

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ayrton

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Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #9 on: March 01, 2022, 12:28:41 PM »
Still haven't pulled to trigger and hired an escort yet.   Getting really close.   Once again,  are there any legitimate sites for hiring one.   Still in the Chicago area.   I fear getting ripped off. 

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Robin_K2

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Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #10 on: March 01, 2022, 05:51:37 PM »
Been there done that, wish I had saved my money. It's a really fun fantasy, but . . . well, glad I didn't pick up an STD.

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rtpoe

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Re: Newbie to escorts
« Reply #11 on: November 13, 2023, 09:24:12 PM »
A really good website with plenty of articles and essays about the whole "escort" experience - primarily from the sex workers themselves.

https://www.satisfactionproject.com/

Shame and stigma mean that many people who spend time with escorts and other independent sex workers have unsatisfying experiences. The Satisfaction Project demystifies hands-on sex work, empowering clients to get their needs met and making life better for service providers.

The project was founded by Georgie Wolf, an escort from Melbourne, Australia.

Through this site, we share sex-positive and shame-free advice, teaching communication, consent and safer sex skills that allow clients to make the most of their encounters with hands-on sex professionals, while treating them with kindness and respect.
rtpoe

Among the blossoms, under dewy skies,
With golden bells, and wreaths, and posies,
With bees’ love-tokens, butterflies’ good-byes,
We welcome May and say good-bye to roses.

-  Christina Rosetti, "May Morning"