well guys, i've done it.
i saw her in the record store over the weekend and she was looking at the new mars volta album which i'd bought earlier that morning and already had a listen to. i told her it was really great and she kept talking for ages, til she mentioned she'd seen me around a lot. i told her i'd seen her too, and we wound up having lunch together.
anyhow, after lunch we went for a walk and wound up in a secluded corner of the park. we sat down, talked for about and hour, then, as they say, one thing led to another and we were making out. i was careful not to go straight for her chest, but to my surprise, she took my hand and placed it right on one of them. i went from there, and during the course of things (we only made out, nothing too bad for a public park!) i told her she has a wonderful body... she thanked me and asked if i thought "they [are] too big?" and when i told her i thought they were perfect she told me she'd had some experences with previous boyfriends not wanting to touch her and saying her chest was too big... "i mean, 12F, on someone my size, is pretty big, i guesss..." she said. 12F! damn! i told her she was perfect, and well, that's that. i mean, other things happened, but y'know... we're taking things slow, nothing major or official yet...
thanks for all the encouragement guys, it paid off in spades! i'm still spun out by how much happened on that one day!