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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #120 on: June 14, 2010, 07:41:13 PM »
Great point.  "Charmed" life can be defined in many ways.  I assumed the definition to mean..."special attention; get what they want; turn heads, etc."


So what you are saying, extra attention from men = charmed. I don't think anyone here is doubting that attractive, fit women with bigger breasts get more attention. But are their lives truly enriched or improved because of it?

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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #121 on: June 14, 2010, 08:02:11 PM »
Keep in mind examples like Jessica Alba encompass the elite of the elite when it comes to their other features such as nice legs, ass, etc.  if anything, this makes my point that it's variables besides "big breasts" that makes a difference.  Add big breasts to features such as Alba's legs etc., and you have head turning Divas. 

As far as citing movie stars such as Alba who don't have "huge breasts" and how they have done better than larger breasted women in hollywood...that's a very specific viewpoint and example.  Remove the stardom factor, and if two unknown women each with nice "other" features, but one of them has large breasts and one of them has no breasts, rest assured the larger breasted women will draw the attention.  Both will be viewed favorably because of the position "other" features, but the large breasted woman will likely get the attention.  Swap either of these women with someone significantly overweight with cellulite or very unattractive facially, and the "attention" drops off dramatically. 

It's sad that our culture is so swayed by the media and what people (men) call attractive because VERY few of women look like Hef's girls, and lord knows even the hottest lose that "perfect" look at some point.  Thank goodness many men overlook such imperfections, but I catch my hubby checking out hot younger girls.  It's the nature of men, and it doesn't bother me.  They are simply wired different, in in the US, with some exceptions obviously, many men a drawn to the fit (I didn't say model thin) women.  Add big boobs to an already "perfect" bod, and the attention goes up even further.

It's no wonder the divorse reates are so high in the US.  Most womwn can't live up the expectations of the advertised perfect body hollywood portrays, and even the hot ones often lose that perfect look as they age.  That's a sad sad reality


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Well, I feel like I've already addressed that. Hollywood will deem Pam Anderson only capable of bimbo roles. She won't ever land a role that Jessica Alba or Eva Longoria gets. So okay, if you are lucky - you will have a fifteen minute career like Pam Anderson or Jenny McCarthy, but both of those are already attractive women and rare exceptions I believe. There are probably a million other blond starlets with fake boobs in Hollywood trying to make it and will be lucky if they get in one music video or beer ad. Exploitation seems to be the only career choice for the "charmed" woman's life in any of your scenarios.

Among Hollywood A-listers like Sandra Bullock, Jennifer Anniston, or Reese Witherspoon - I believe all of them would never have had the careers they have now if they had chosen to get big implants upon their arrival in Hollywood.
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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #122 on: June 14, 2010, 08:52:33 PM »
MrsPacman 1, I am just showing appreciation what Pink Lisa added nothing more or less is that ok? Whether she has commented 100 times or once acknowledgement is appreciated.

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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #123 on: June 14, 2010, 09:03:57 PM »
ValNTx, right on.I couldn't have said it better myself. If two  Jessica Alba type women who were unknown entered a room one had large breasts the other not who would get the most attention? I am sure there would be men intimidated by the large breasted woman therefore may not get alot of response because men would be uneasy talking to her. In a poll given to men who would you rather date I think hands down the big breasted woman would win. Maybe a TV show like 20/20 should do an experiment like this that would be cool.

Also has mentioned in the United States if your overweight it is considered not attractive by many.It is a poor reflection of society everyone can't be Twiggy.Not sure if were hard wired for body type maybe so at least according to the Discover channel special on attraction. Here's a thought over in Africa those women who put rings around their neck to stretch their necks the more you have the more attractive it is over there. I can't remember but a tribe over in africa they put plates to stretch their mouths or lips to compete at least I think that is right. Different cultures have their own way but I think for many of the countries the attractive ,hour glass figured woman still has a much more charmed life than other women.

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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #124 on: June 14, 2010, 09:24:14 PM »
Right or wrong, many of us look at people (not just women, but anyone) who are overweight with a sense of "Geez, get off your ass and get to the gym."

I am totally aware it's not that easy for most, but my feeling is that we are attracted to 'healthy' body types in general.  Amazingly large breast attraction is probably more of a environmental cause than an instinctive one, but there have been studies that show that women with an hourglass figure tend to be more fertile than women with less proportionate body types.

Personally, I feel that attraction toward breasts and hips (on women, of course) leads back to the subconscious desire to provide for our offspring, both before and after birth.

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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #125 on: June 14, 2010, 10:49:04 PM »
I know one busty woman who doesn't suffer from this:  cherri.

Conversely, I knew a woman about 7-8 years ago who told me she used to be a G-cup "boobs on a stick" back in high school, and subsequently got a reduction.  (She wanted to be a C-cup, but her surgeon took her to a B-cup.)  When I knew her, she was no longer the "stick" (the pendulum had swung the other way) and was still about a B-cup.  Prior to the surgery, she complained about constant back pain.  Years after the fact when I knew her, she still suffered from back pain.  My guess is it was bad posture, learned early on from having had the big boobs at one time.  Whether the learned behaviour was due to gravity or due to wanting to appear less busty (or both) makes me wonder how many busty women could alleviate back pain through a deliberate change in posture habits.  (This might be helped/hindered by the (im)properly fitting bra, I'm sure.)
Let's not forget that millions of people in America suffer from chronic back pain, and half of them don't have breasts, and at least 90% of the other half don't have large breasts.  Back pain has many causes, and large breasts are far from the top of the list.


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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #126 on: June 14, 2010, 11:31:42 PM »
Very interesting point here...

Harmony found that her falsies, about 5 lbs total, actually make her back hurt less.  She suffers from mild scoliosis and chronic back pain.

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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #127 on: June 15, 2010, 12:09:01 AM »
Not so much my thoughts. These are life experiences that happened to me. Well I did not say all men are like that. I said the ones who spoke to me in real life are like that. No nice decent guys ever spoke to me when interested in dating someone. Only the jerks who think saying sexual things to women is funny, wanting sexy and seeing someone nude.

This opens up an interesting topic in general. Based on my own rather limited personal  experience I wonder if some very busty women end up developing a perception of men just wanting sex. There will always be some physical attraction, some clue that could be spun by a perception filter into that even if the guy never mentions anything sexual. A peak at her breasts, a compliment on her looks, could be any number of little things. A decent guy would then need to be completely without observable sexual interest and then that leads him into not being dating material and hence no decent guys are interested.

I know I have some of my own perception filters that developed out of early experiences and even recognizing them they are difficult to try and put aside. It is likely way worse for many women on the 95th+ percentile for breast size.


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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #128 on: June 15, 2010, 12:49:27 AM »
MrsPacman 1, I am just showing appreciation what Pink Lisa added nothing more or less is that ok? Whether she has commented 100 times or once acknowledgement is appreciated.

You're right...acknowledgement is appreciated. In all honesty, Pink Lisa has some intelligent and very valid arguments against your theory. Her presence here makes this thread that much more enjoyable because of it. Kudos to her for speaking out and giving her dose of reality to all of us. Thank you girl!  :-*

The difference: She was not the only busty and voluptuous women to give an opinion here. Again, I have no qualms with taking anyone's points as being more valid than any other. However, I'm calling it like I see it.

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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #129 on: June 15, 2010, 04:02:30 AM »
Pink Lisa, I guess we all have problems not just big busted women. :D Interesting to hear from a voluptous woman on her thoughts abut the subject. I'm sorry you had to go through such difficult times and I understand why you haven't had a charmed life. I guess for a woman you have to seperate the bad guys from the good guys and not so many good guys approach or want to get to know you.

The old adage just be the best you can be sounds over used but fits. Those who are blessed with great looks and body I think we all agree have their cake and eat it to for the most part.The rest of us just have make the best of it and find happiness. 

Well I see it as being a part of life. I hold not grudges. I just know what type of person to avoid based on what they say and hot they behave.
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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #130 on: June 15, 2010, 04:36:50 AM »
This opens up an interesting topic in general. Based on my own rather limited personal  experience I wonder if some very busty women end up developing a perception of men just wanting sex. There will always be some physical attraction, some clue that could be spun by a perception filter into that even if the guy never mentions anything sexual. A peak at her breasts, a compliment on her looks, could be any number of little things. A decent guy would then need to be completely without observable sexual interest and then that leads him into not being dating material and hence no decent guys are interested.

I know I have some of my own perception filters that developed out of early experiences and even recognizing them they are difficult to try and put aside. It is likely way worse for many women on the 95th+ percentile for breast size.


Well not me. I just think the ones that just want sex would bother me thinking big breasts must mean she will have sex with any man who talks to her type of thing because she has huge breasts. Not all guys want just sex or sex from all women. I just wished more of the decent guys asked out on more then 3 dates. I wish Guys wanted to know me and be with me because I am cool and funny and goofy and nerdy and what ever makes me the person I am. I just think all the wrong guys wore the ones who wanted to talk to me. All the decent guys just wanted average looking women. But saying nice things about my looks, taking a peak at my cleavage or body as I talk to them or walk by is normal. I take a peak at cleavage too while talking to other women.

But when I would notice a guy looking at me I would think I wonder if he is nice and what he is about. Then he just talks about breasts and just about sex and then says things like I like your body type and then breaks out a porn mag with nude busty chicks in it, Then I know he just wants sex right before he says lets have sex or can I see you naked all with in the 5 minutes of knowing him. Then I know he is a jerky creep and I just hang my head and walk away in disappointment. People who want to know me are so few and far between to the point that I would breath a sigh of relief when someone in passing would ask me about random things like do I know what grocery aisle has a certain item is or asks me about medical health issues that have nothing to do with me. That is why I always liked talking to older people. Or asks me where I bought something I am wearing and then I have to explain that I make everything by hand that I own.

But what I was talking about is talking to someone you think is nice and they then say they are only interested in having sex or seeing me naked. Decent guys do not do that or say things like that. They get to know the person and want a relationship with the women they have sex with. and they do not make that the only thing they want.

To me a decent guy will notice the body and what ever else they like about a women, say nice things about the women and her looks. but they would want to be with her in a relationship. Not some skeevy random sex one night or to see her naked for a few minutes and that is all. That is freaking odd.
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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #131 on: June 15, 2010, 09:19:38 AM »
Remove the stardom factor, and if two unknown women each with nice "other" features, but one of them has large breasts and one of them has no breasts, rest assured the larger breasted women will draw the attention.

Please understand, I'm not trying to pick on you or your comments, but again - no one is arguing this. Why do you have to take it such extremes? Flat chested versus large breasts? Of course large breasts win. But as said before, the big breasted women who get reductions don't get them completely removed - they wish for average breasts. So to redo your experiment, look back a few comments when we submitted the question of "What if two Jessica Alba-esque went to the same party, one has Jessica Alba's breasts one has Denise Milani's breasts or Rachel Aladna's breasts or Anorei Collins' breasts - which one gets the most attention?"

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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #132 on: June 15, 2010, 12:30:45 PM »
Mebbe I'm thinking this in the wrong way, but I can imagine running into Rachel in public (interesting fantasy, actually.)  Let's say I wanted to be friendly but not a fanboi.  Would she see any attempt at conversation as a come on, since most guys would have (at the very least) an internal "holy fuck" moment upon seeing her.  I would too, but to be honest, I'd just want to chat because she seems so amazingly cute in her videos, I'm in love with her accent.

I'm happily married and really have no interest in sex with anyone else.  But of course, she wouldn't know that.  So...might get lumped in with the other 36,000 guys that approach her with bed on their minds.

I wonder if it isn't that most women with above-average breasts tend to get that 'Men can't just be friends, they all want sex.'  And of course, a ton of women probly shy away from them, through sheer inadequacy issues.  I can't see Harmony walking up to Rachel or another like her, and making friends.  That would be sooo cool tho. ;D

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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #133 on: June 15, 2010, 12:40:31 PM »
Mebbe I'm thinking this in the wrong way, but I can imagine running into Rachel in public (interesting fantasy, actually.)  Let's say I wanted to be friendly but not a fanboi.  Would she see any attempt at conversation as a come on, since most guys would have (at the very least) an internal "holy fuck" moment upon seeing her.  I would too, but to be honest, I'd just want to chat because she seems so amazingly cute in her videos, I'm in love with her accent.

I'm happily married and really have no interest in sex with anyone else.  But of course, she wouldn't know that.  So...might get lumped in with the other 36,000 guys that approach her with bed on their minds.

I wonder if it isn't that most women with above-average breasts tend to get that 'Men can't just be friends, they all want sex.'  And of course, a ton of women probly shy away from them, through sheer inadequacy issues.  I can't see Harmony walking up to Rachel or another like her, and making friends.  That would be sooo cool tho. ;D

La-"I have tit-vision, but only because they're so damn awesome.  You like sunsets, I like boobs"-don


This is what I mean about nice decent guys not saying hello because they think that everyone will think they are being a pervert or a fanboi. Not the case when you explain your self and just say hello in a friendly way.

The guys who want sex always say that is what they want when they do come up and talk to us busty women. I know there are normal guys who are capable of wanting to be friends. They just need to speak up and say so.

I like boobs too. I like boobs more so then sunsets.
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Re: Do Big-Breasted Women Lead a Charmed Life?
« Reply #134 on: June 15, 2010, 04:32:59 PM »
I think the real question here is how many dudes have rubbed one out to this very serious thread.
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