[PinkLisa]

I officially LOVE that video! It's quite silly, of course, but damn if it doesn't at least show the silly side of big boobs!

To the busty ladies here: does this video make you think that maybe your boobs are important in other peoples' lives? You never know who you're affecting or how, and I think it would be intriguing to ask around and see what other people really think about your bingo-bongos.

Q-"Philosophy suits me"-BE

Nope. Unless you count being someones spank material important. I know what people would say. I would never want to be a flat chested freak.

[BarneyFife]

I saw that episode of Chappelle a few years ago and thought it was great. What's the old saying you don't know what you have until you lose it.  There was an episode on Designing Women with Delta Burke where one of the women who was flat chested wanted implants. The doctor suggested for her to wear the falsies before she gets the surgery to see how it would feel. Anyway the 3 women go to a bar and are standing around. This man at a table orders a drink for the woman that had the falsies and the lady said you see these things are power. :)One of the great lines I've ever heard. She told the other 2 women now I know why you two have been holding out on me. That was a great show and does make good points.

Here's a question for the ladies would you have met your partner if you didn't have the big boobs? While we have talked about the negatives I stil think the positives outweigh them overall. 

[gmantwo]

The Power of Boobs. Why are all of us here anyway? Boobs have a power that isn't seen by other body parts. Is there a site like this one for small boobs, big noses or long legs? Maybe...but I doubt it. If there are such groups, I bet they don't have nearly the numbers and eclectic membership we have.

A lot of the ladies here have expressed their frustration with their boobs, but would they be here if they hated them? I think not. The power of boobs is something extraordinary. Most people ( men AND women) will check out a woman's boobs very early upon meeting them; especially if they are beyond the norm.

[Ladon]

The nice decent guys do not talk to tend to talk to me. I have gone out of my way to say hello to them and they just look at me and say nothing.

Wow, I'd never outright ignore ANYONE, let alone a beautiful woman.  Now, I'm married as I said before, but let me turn this around a bit...

Say a guy wanted to talk a little, not really interested in a date or anything, maybe he thinks you're quite attractive.  These days we're bombarded with messages at work that something as simple as a compliment can be 'harassment.'  I am notoriously shy and HATE to say as much as hello without practically an engraved invitation to do so.  How would you suggest to spark a conversation that wouldn't make you think 'this guy just likes my tits.'

I guess this kinda comes with my social ineptness.  Women usually say I'm very sensitive and 'emotionally intelligent' but I have a huge problem with things as simple as making friends. :p

[zeo]

So skeevy guys ruin nothing for the decent nice guys. They just ruin things for them self's.

But I'm discussing my experience with the women I've actually talked to, tried to get to know. It is what it is.

[PinkLisa]

Wow, I'd never outright ignore ANYONE, let alone a beautiful woman.  Now, I'm married as I said before, but let me turn this around a bit...

Say a guy wanted to talk a little, not really interested in a date or anything, maybe he thinks you're quite attractive.  These days we're bombarded with messages at work that something as simple as a compliment can be 'harassment.'  I am notoriously shy and HATE to say as much as hello without practically an engraved invitation to do so.  How would you suggest to spark a conversation that wouldn't make you think 'this guy just likes my tits.'

I guess this kinda comes with my social ineptness.  Women usually say I'm very sensitive and 'emotionally intelligent' but I have a huge problem with things as simple as making friends. :p

I do not mind someone liking my breasts or talking about my breasts and my body. but when someone thinks I am going to have sex with him because of my body type, then that makes him a skeevy dude. I could talk about any subject. I just wish more of the decent guys would have wanted to talk to me. Then I would have been able to know more of the decent nice guys and less of the sex obsessed skeevy types.

[PinkLisa]

But I'm discussing my experience with the women I've actually talked to, tried to get to know. It is what it is.

Hmmm. That sucks. I do not know why anyone would choose to label or judge all men based on what only some have done. I do not. I just know what signs to look for in order to recognize a skeevy person vs. a nice decent person. Everyone is different in how they live their life and in how they choose to act.

[bignatslover]

I would never want to be a flat chested freak.

I am kissing your avatar right now.

[PinkLisa]

I am kissing your avatar right now.

Pushes boobs together. Pucker up!

[RandomX]

Re: It's a Wonderful Chest: I remember watching that the night it was first on and it was the one sketch from Chapelle Show that I always references and no one seemed to remember.

Here's a question for the ladies would you have met your partner if you didn't have the big boobs? While we have talked about the negatives I stil think the positives outweigh them overall.

I would have, but only because I met him on here! I think that people who meet boyfriends based on their chest size have hot and passionate QUICK relationships, not longterm ones. Some of them might find that they connect on other levels, but if you met BECAUSE of a nice rack and not because they were a fringe benefit, I can't imagine that being a very satisfying relationship on a non-superficial level.

[BarneyFife]

What I mean about would you have met your partner had you not had a curvy body of course there is more to a relationship than the physical. I assume the partner is a nice guy but would he be attracted to you initially because of the big boobs then the relationship developed from there(interests,personality type)?

Speaking for myself the more interests,personality and other characteristics a person has that matches myt own causes you to like that person more. Having big boobs is a bonus so I wonder what came first the chicken (men going after the woman because of big boobs)  or the egg (the partner liked you regardless of the big boobs). Not sure if that makes sense but initially men have to be attracted to a woman before they hit on her.

[gmantwo]

...but if you met BECAUSE of a nice rack and not because they were a fringe benefit, I can't imagine that being a very satisfying relationship on a non-superficial level.

Just because the "nice rack" got the guy's attention, why couldn't they fall in love just like anyone else? We all notice our true love because of something at first; does it really matter if it's a gal's face, sense of humor or big tits? It's what happens subsequently that makes the difference.

You can't tell me that successful relationships haven't resulted from the gal first being attracted to a guy's height, face or cute butt. Only after may she notice his intelligence and personality.

[zeo]

Hmmm. That sucks. I do not know why anyone would choose to label or judge all men based on what only some have done

I'm avoiding repeating stories I've posted before but about the only thing that can save me with most busty women is when they figure out I'm equal opportunity. That is I'll look at any nice pair of breasts if given the opportunity regardless of size.   Those with barely any breasts at often seem to enjoy it as a compliment.

[dfdf]

Just because the "nice rack" got the guy's attention, why couldn't they fall in love just like anyone else? We all notice our true love because of something at first; does it really matter if it's a gal's face, sense of humor or big tits? It's what happens subsequently that makes the difference.

You can't tell me that successful relationships haven't resulted from the gal first being attracted to a guy's height, face or cute butt. Only after may she notice his intelligence and personality.

The famous love story "Romeo and Juliet" had love that started on a superficial level and the bloomed into something more as the story went on (how much more is debatable). You certainly can approach someone simply out of sexually attraction and have that bloom into something more. The problem is that those relationships are a rarities. If a man is approaching a woman simply out of sexually attraction then chances he just wants sex, other characteristics be damned. That's why you here of so many big boob models having a hard time finding a partner. Being attractive and being sexually attractive are two different things. The former tends to be the foundation for longer lasting relationships.


Anyhow, that Chappelle skit. Really? That's funny? I'm a huge Chappelle fan but that is quite frankly beneath him. I dunno personally I just find boob jokes played out at this point.

[arflech]

now back when the skit first aired (episode 3, early 2003, more than 7 years ago) the jokes may not have been played out