[Nimrod]

Well I went back and read through this entire thread again partly because this is a very interesting question and also to track the various twists and turns of the "conversation" so far. From this I have come to 5 conclusions;

THE BASIC QUESTION
1) Your typical big breasted woman does NOT lead a charmed life because of their breast size.

THE EXCEPTIONS
2) Referencing those few exception examples, e.g. "Pam Andersons", actually reinforces the fact that the TYPICAL woman does NOT lead a charmed life from larger breasts. Nearly all women are not this type of exception - porn start, bimbo actor, boob model, etc.

ATTENTION
3) Attention does NOT equal a charmed life. A charmed life is categorically positive. Attention can range from very positive to very negative attention. We can say that 50% of big boob attention could be classified as negative in some way.

SELECTION VS GENETICS   (choice vs. nature)
4) Women who choose to enlarge or emphasize their chests by whatever means do so as a decision based on external motivations. They have a personal reason for them being that size. Natural women did not have that option. They grew naturally and had no say in the matter. That makes for a big difference in how they relate to their own chest.
Whereas the enhancers have done so specifically, almost selecting a size, typically change as adults and can rationalize some immediate personal gain the naturally large busted had no say in the size, rate of growth, age they are when it happens and can have surprisingly negative lasting effects of this process. Most large chested women are naturals.

BIOLOGY
5) Biologically speaking enlarged breasts on women are a secondary sexual characteristic that signifies sexual maturity, health and to a lesser extent fecundity. They are an evolutionary result of humans strong group structures, prolonged infant developmental stage, and need for reinforcing mate bonding. Additional attributes assigned to them come from societal tags, emotional association and popular stereotypes. Collectively all these factors combine to give these protuberant fat filled mammary glands much greater significance than one would expect - however they do not guarantee a charmed life.


Also, I will say it again:
Attention does NOT equal a charmed life.

The majority of women who lead charmed lives do so in spite of their large chests.

[MasterDragonfly]

Just because the "nice rack" got the guy's attention, why couldn't they fall in love just like anyone else? We all notice our true love because of something at first; does it really matter if it's a gal's face, sense of humor or big tits? It's what happens subsequently that makes the difference.

You can't tell me that successful relationships haven't resulted from the gal first being attracted to a guy's height, face or cute butt. Only after may she notice his intelligence and personality.

+1

I can think of at least a couple relationships which started out with considerable sexual tension/heat, but turned into long-term relationships.  One of those was cherri, whom I married.  And there was definitely sexual tension, despite there being half a planet between us.    I didn't notice her boobs first, but the real opening private conversation was of a decidedly sexual nature, and continued to be focused in that direction for quite some time.  I'll leave it at that.

I think the common fallacy that many fall into is that "noticing boobs first" somehow equates with "noticing boobs and only boobs, in an artificial vacuum, to the complete exclusion of every other attribute of the woman, for the remainder of the interaction between the man (or woman, as the case may be) and the target boob-bearing woman, no matter how many hours/days/months/years pass by".  I find this difficult to swallow, but my sense is that many cling to this as an axiomatic truth.

[Feral]

The first time I saw my wife, she was sitting down behind a desk and I thought about how pretty she was, the tan she had at the time, her long dark hair and her bright blue eyes - so I was immediately attracted to her physically and I had no idea about her chest (or body). Seeing her 36D's (at the time) was a huge bonus, but I would have still pursued her. Before we married, I had dated flatter chested women and women with larger breasts, but it was always personality and compatibility that were the most important factors in determining how long my relationships lasted. In fact, the two or three really large chested women I dated were a complete turn off after just a couple of dates because I could not get on any common ground and no real spark to build on.

So just big boobs are not enough for me.

[PinkLisa]

What I mean about would you have met your partner had you not had a curvy body of course there is more to a relationship than the physical. I assume the partner is a nice guy but would he be attracted to you initially because of the big boobs then the relationship developed from there(interests,personality type)?

Speaking for myself the more interests,personality and other characteristics a person has that matches myt own causes you to like that person more. Having big boobs is a bonus so I wonder what came first the chicken (men going after the woman because of big boobs)  or the egg (the partner liked you regardless of the big boobs). Not sure if that makes sense but initially men have to be attracted to a woman before they hit on her.

No because I would have met someone else way before I met him I think.

[PinkLisa]

I'm avoiding repeating stories I've posted before but about the only thing that can save me with most busty women is when they figure out I'm equal opportunity. That is I'll look at any nice pair of breasts if given the opportunity regardless of size.   Those with barely any breasts at often seem to enjoy it as a compliment.

I like that.

[PinkLisa]

Well I went back and read through this entire thread again partly because this is a very interesting question and also to track the various twists and turns of the "conversation" so far. From this I have come to 5 conclusions;

THE BASIC QUESTION
1) Your typical big breasted woman does NOT lead a charmed life because of their breast size.

THE EXCEPTIONS
2) Referencing those few exception examples, e.g. "Pam Andersons", actually reinforces the fact that the TYPICAL woman does NOT lead a charmed life from larger breasts. Nearly all women are not this type of exception - porn start, bimbo actor, boob model, etc.

ATTENTION
3) Attention does NOT equal a charmed life. A charmed life is categorically positive. Attention can range from very positive to very negative attention. We can say that 50% of big boob attention could be classified as negative in some way.

SELECTION VS GENETICS   (choice vs. nature)
4) Women who choose to enlarge or emphasize their chests by whatever means do so as a decision based on external motivations. They have a personal reason for them being that size. Natural women did not have that option. They grew naturally and had no say in the matter. That makes for a big difference in how they relate to their own chest.
Whereas the enhancers have done so specifically, almost selecting a size, typically change as adults and can rationalize some immediate personal gain the naturally large busted had no say in the size, rate of growth, age they are when it happens and can have surprisingly negative lasting effects of this process. Most large chested women are naturals.

BIOLOGY
5) Biologically speaking enlarged breasts on women are a secondary sexual characteristic that signifies sexual maturity, health and to a lesser extent fecundity. They are an evolutionary result of humans strong group structures, prolonged infant developmental stage, and need for reinforcing mate bonding. Additional attributes assigned to them come from societal tags, emotional association and popular stereotypes. Collectively all these factors combine to give these protuberant fat filled mammary glands much greater significance than one who expect - however they do not guarantee a charmed life.


Also, I will say it again:
Attention does NOT equal a charmed life.

The majority of women who lead charmed lives do so in spite of their large chests.

You are a very insightful person and you are right on the money with this synopsis. 

[BarneyFife]

I guess in the end it doesn't matter as long as the two got together pertaining to was the guy initially attracted to the boobs or the person first.A woman can be covered up and the man would never know till later is what I mean then SURPRISE I happen to own these two (porsches) um boobs you like.

Only the man or gay woman would know the answer but it's an interesting thought.This should be an experiement on TV so we can find out the real answers inquiring minds want to know,haha.

[zeo]

I guess in the end it doesn't matter as long as the two got together pertaining to was the guy initially attracted to the boobs or the person first.

I don't think the order really matters when a woman is sensitive about guys finding her attractive because of the size of her breasts.

I like that.

Now you try working every day with a woman with AA cups who wears shirts so tight they might as well be painted on and has her large nipples pointing out much of the time

[PinkLisa]

I don't think the order really matters when a woman is sensitive about guys finding her attractive because of the size of her breasts.

Now you try working every day with a woman with AA cups who wears shirts so tight they might as well be painted on and has her large nipples pointing out much of the time

I have. I tried not to look all the time. but she was really pretty as well so I always looked at her for that reason and then I would look down. Nipples!

[dfdf]

now back when the skit first aired (episode 3, early 2003, more than 7 years ago) the jokes may not have been played out

no, Boob jokes to me have always been played out. It's either uncomfortable situation or men losing their shit, neither of which I very funny, just obnoxious.

I guess in the end it doesn't matter as long as the two got together pertaining to was the guy initially attracted to the boobs or the person first.A woman can be covered up and the man would never know till later is what I mean then SURPRISE I happen to own these two (porsches) um boobs you like.

here's a quote from Christiana Hendricks
"The men who look, they really look. It doesn't insult us. It doesn't faze us, really. It's just, well, it's a little infantile. Which is ironic, isn't it? The men who constantly stare at our breasts are never the men we're attracted to."

as zeo said for some....well, a lot of women when the idea that the spark in their relationship was tits, is simply unappealing. 

[RandomX]

Just because the "nice rack" got the guy's attention, why couldn't they fall in love just like anyone else? We all notice our true love because of something at first; does it really matter if it's a gal's face, sense of humor or big tits? It's what happens subsequently that makes the difference.

You can't tell me that successful relationships haven't resulted from the gal first being attracted to a guy's height, face or cute butt. Only after may she notice his intelligence and personality.

I think you might find your partner because of your build, but if you have such an extreme build (large chest, very tall, etc), you need to weed through significantly more people. Think of all of you. You see someone with huge tits and I'm sure you consider buying her a drink, talking to her, etc. Now think of someone with a normal build. The odds are less likely that you'd remember her. You might not act on it, but for those that do, that girl needs to weed through a lot more superficial people who are only interested in her body before finding someone who likes her for her tits AND her other traits.

[BarneyFife]

I think you might find your partner because of your build, but if you have such an extreme build (large chest, very tall, etc), you need to weed through significantly more people. Think of all of you. You see someone with huge tits and I'm sure you consider buying her a drink, talking to her, etc. Now think of someone with a normal build. The odds are less likely that you'd remember her. You might not act on it, but for those that do, that girl needs to weed through a lot more superficial people who are only interested in her body before finding someone who likes her for her tits AND her other traits.

RandomX, at least she has the opportunity to meet more men although she has to weed out more.The chances of hitting the lottery the more you play are better than the person who only can put a dollar in.

[RandomX]

Do big breasted women live a charmed life? Let me answer that right now based on my day.

Today, I wore an oversized t-shirt. Proof and I went to Barnes and Noble where for the first time in my entire life, a middle aged man copped a feel. I still feel violated. Would that have happened if I didn't have a very prominent rack? No. After B&N, Proof and I went to the mall. We went through Belk's and came in through the bra section. I felt a long moment of disappointment that all of those beautiful and sexy bras were easily 3-4 cup sizes below my range. Walking through the store, I got multiple "you are scum of the earth, a slut and a whore" stares aimed at my chest and then myself. The only outfit I can hide them better in ASIDE from an oversized t-shirt is a giant baggy sweater. It is 98 degrees outside, so not going to happen.

So today I was groped, couldn't fit in clothing and was given death stares for wearing non-revealing clothing. You tell me. Am I, a big breasted woman, am living a charmed life?

[BarneyFife]

There are positives and negatives to being big breasted.Every person whether tall,short,overweight,underweight,voluptous,rich,poor as their own circumstances to deal with.

[zeo]

Today, I wore an oversized t-shirt. Proof and I went to Barnes and Noble where for the first time in my entire life, a middle aged man copped a feel. I still feel violated. Would that have happened if I didn't have a very prominent rack? No.

Maybe, maybe not. Gropers and feelers exist in both genders and individually have their own target body parts.