My face isn't usually the first thing people like about me so it means a lot to me that you see more than just my chest. You guys are so much sweeter than the guys at Freeones - I was reading the Forum there, they are like 5x worse than anyone here, really mean things. I thought about posting something, not in retaliation but just so they know I check things out from time to time but decided not even to bother, I doubt I'll be checking that site again anytime soon. ANYWAYS, Thank you, it makes me feel better 
And I am a homebody these days.. I like going to the movies once in awhile, out to dinner but nothing crazy. And I always like to be home before 2, I have a theory that nothing good could possibly happen after 2am and the latest that can be stretched to is 3. There is nothing good going on at 4 or 5 am, coming home from clubs/bars when people are waking up to go to work is NOT cool and I'm not 23 anymore, I'm too old to be behaving like that. It was fun while it lasted.. just time to move on from it.
Sometimes what is noticed first is never really known, only what noticing is noticed first.
As to nasty comments, I see it more as part of the decay (or falling backwards) of society in general where people cannot tolerate differences or even differences in preferences. It's a pretty involved discussion to get into regarding how it got to this condition. Those here at the BEA tend to run the intolerant off, which really improves things over many other forums.
I never cared for clubs and bars but late at night can be a nice time far away from clubs and bars... it's quiet and not many people around.